I think what you are doing is fine. I find myself wanting to touch another human when I travel for extended periods of time by myself. There are so many subtle ways to do it--touching fingers when receiving a receipt or having your credit card returned, letting your knee lean against that of the person beside you on the train or plane, taking an offered hand for a handshake in BOTH your hands making it seem an ultra sincere gesture, etc. If you crave it enough, you can ride buses or subways during rush hours, go into the pit at concerts, push in closely around street entertainers, etc. Maybe you could take an adult-education class in giving massage; then you could offer free massages to others. Be creative in your thinking, and PLAN ways to get your touching fix.
IIN to touch guys discreetly?
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I think what you are doing is fine. I find myself wanting to touch another human when I travel for extended periods of time by myself. There are so many subtle ways to do it--touching fingers when receiving a receipt or having your credit card returned, letting your knee lean against that of the person beside you on the train or plane, taking an offered hand for a handshake in BOTH your hands making it seem an ultra sincere gesture, etc. If you crave it enough, you can ride buses or subways during rush hours, go into the pit at concerts, push in closely around street entertainers, etc. Maybe you could take an adult-education class in giving massage; then you could offer free massages to others. Be creative in your thinking, and PLAN ways to get your touching fix.