I've heard of this before and I'm so very sorry for your loss. My grandmother died, my 17 year old nephew was killed and last November I withdrew treatment from my dying father to let him die in peace.
I have been so devastated by the loss that I went totally deaf in one ear - apparently with the stress. However, we should analyse why we grieve. If the person is in pain it is better for them to die, but we are sad coz we miss them so much. I don't think it benefits you to turn this sadness into anger but if you are male it may be hard for you to express it. Blaming God isn't helping you as it's alienating you from your cousin.
Whatever you believe, you can be assured that you grandma would want you to stay close to your cousin and to be as happy as possible.
It will take time and you will always miss your grandma but the pain will lessen. Try to think of all the happier times you two shared that made you smile. Good luck.
Is it normal to to be angry at god for the death of loved ones?
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I've heard of this before and I'm so very sorry for your loss. My grandmother died, my 17 year old nephew was killed and last November I withdrew treatment from my dying father to let him die in peace.
I have been so devastated by the loss that I went totally deaf in one ear - apparently with the stress. However, we should analyse why we grieve. If the person is in pain it is better for them to die, but we are sad coz we miss them so much. I don't think it benefits you to turn this sadness into anger but if you are male it may be hard for you to express it. Blaming God isn't helping you as it's alienating you from your cousin.
Whatever you believe, you can be assured that you grandma would want you to stay close to your cousin and to be as happy as possible.
It will take time and you will always miss your grandma but the pain will lessen. Try to think of all the happier times you two shared that made you smile. Good luck.