Yes it would be normal for him to do this since he is emotionally abusive and also physically abusive. But, I would suggest to you that you take your daughter to your parents or other relatives to temporarily live until you gain enough courage to pack your bags and leave this man. My mother got with a man who did NOTHING but emotionally, physically, and sexually abuse her after she divorced my dad and I was about two years old at the time. Prior to this, I was told that I was a normal, happy, well adjusted person but after being witness to all the abuse, even at a young age, I became withdrawn and afraid, and I developed a lot of emotional and self-esteem issues. Also, to make it worse, once I got up to about the age of three or four, my step-dad began to emotionally, physically, and sexually abuse me too. Now, I KNOW how hard it is to leave someone like this because I was in a relationship with a man for four years who was JUST like my step-father and it took every fiber of my being to get enough courage to tell him to get fucked and leave for good (luckily, I didn't have children with this guy). But, I know that you care deeply for your child and I know that you probably want her to get with a good man instead of a loser or abuser, and I know that you don't want her to undergo what you've had to go through, so PLEASE get your daughter out of the situation before she becomes a casualty to this and irreversible mental damage is done to her because even after 20+ years, I am STILL in therapy over what happened to my mom and I, and I am STILL struggling with low self-esteem and self-worth issues. I KNOW that it will kill you to have to send your child off to live with a relative, but it's way better for the child to be out of the abusive situation even if you are unable to at this time--you HAVE to think of the child's welfare before you think or your own. PLEASE do the right thing, even if your husband doesn't agree and you risk getting beat for it--your child is your future!
IIN to threaten to kill your child when you lose your patience?
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Yes it would be normal for him to do this since he is emotionally abusive and also physically abusive. But, I would suggest to you that you take your daughter to your parents or other relatives to temporarily live until you gain enough courage to pack your bags and leave this man. My mother got with a man who did NOTHING but emotionally, physically, and sexually abuse her after she divorced my dad and I was about two years old at the time. Prior to this, I was told that I was a normal, happy, well adjusted person but after being witness to all the abuse, even at a young age, I became withdrawn and afraid, and I developed a lot of emotional and self-esteem issues. Also, to make it worse, once I got up to about the age of three or four, my step-dad began to emotionally, physically, and sexually abuse me too. Now, I KNOW how hard it is to leave someone like this because I was in a relationship with a man for four years who was JUST like my step-father and it took every fiber of my being to get enough courage to tell him to get fucked and leave for good (luckily, I didn't have children with this guy). But, I know that you care deeply for your child and I know that you probably want her to get with a good man instead of a loser or abuser, and I know that you don't want her to undergo what you've had to go through, so PLEASE get your daughter out of the situation before she becomes a casualty to this and irreversible mental damage is done to her because even after 20+ years, I am STILL in therapy over what happened to my mom and I, and I am STILL struggling with low self-esteem and self-worth issues. I KNOW that it will kill you to have to send your child off to live with a relative, but it's way better for the child to be out of the abusive situation even if you are unable to at this time--you HAVE to think of the child's welfare before you think or your own. PLEASE do the right thing, even if your husband doesn't agree and you risk getting beat for it--your child is your future!