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I want to have sex for the first time, but I always think that my vagina is differnt than everyone elses. HELP. I know this question sounds stupid.
Are you self conscious about your labia?
I think it was Sue Johanson that said "labias are like flowers- they come in all sizes, shapes, and colors"
Don't go by what porn star vaginas look they're paid because they have perfect ladybits. I mean, there's all sorts of plastic surgery options for making your vagina look better, so obviously its normal to be self conscious.
Don't be. You and your nether regions are normal!
It's not stupid at all. Most girls think this at some stage or another. They forget that most boys are so happy to finally get access to the goodies, they wouldn't notice if you had a tattoo down there with the words "please notice this tattoo".
In all seriousness, all women are different. I have never once in my life had a conversation with another man where either of us commented about the weirdness of a girl's bits. Nor have I overheard a conversation like that. Nor have I heard a joke about it. It never crosses our minds.
That's normal because your vagina IS different than everyone else's.
Every woman is different. Some have larger or smaller labia, or have a different shape. Some women will have a larger clitoris while others will have a smaller one.
And if you're worried that yours is too "different" ... remember, no man EVER mocks the vagina he wants to insert his tongue, finger, or penis into.
give it a shot worst case scenario your vag is totally gross and he runs screaming in which case you'll know and you'll just have to stick to fucking degenerate alcoholics like me but thats cool I'm fucking great in bed
Everyone's vagina is different. At least every girl's vagina is different. Men's vaginas are WAY different... It's like a vulva-print... But seriously...
It sounds like you might actually be too young for sex, if you have that kind of hangup ... Generally when you have a hangup about something it's because you're not ready for it yet... Wait until it feels right, that's when you know you're actually ready!
Its ok to feel this way, most girls think the same thing. If you really want to know google it , look for pictures and with a mirror compare yourslef to the pics. But as like boobs there are plenty of a variety of all of that.
i m also virgin till now..i also want to sex..i m also feeling same kind of thinking..
Every girl IS different down there.. But trust me on this, guys will love it!.
You shouldn't be insecure about "down there"! Once you get into a situation were your probably going to have sex, they guy will just be happy its happening. He won't care about what it looks like!! Be confident!
I hope your vagina is different. That would be weird if it wasn't. Take a look at some of Georgia O'Keefe's artwork. This will give you an idea of how different all women are.