Is it normal to think you're gay?

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I'm in high-school and I'm not sure what I like. I've always had an attraction to guys. I had a serious relationship with a guy I've known since third grade. I loved him but then he cheated. Recently my sister questioned my sexuality because I don't go on many dates. Now I question myself whether or not I really like guys. Is this normal?

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  • Frosties
    11 years ago | pl

    Sexuality is something where it seems obvious that you should know instinctively know what yours is. Like whether you prefer chocolate or strawberry milkshakes. But, for whatever reason, sexuality isn't as simple as this and sometimes it takes some time to work out what it is you like.

    Add to that the fact that in high school your body is going through crazy changes, hormones are flying around, and nobody knows what the hell is going on with themselves.

    Trust me, everything will become clear. For now, it doesn't matter how you label yourself. Just do what you feel like doing.

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  • chabamm
    11 years ago | pl

    I love guys. But my sister questioned my sexuality. She thinks I might be gay because I don't go on many dates with guys. Being that she's my big sis, it made me question myself as well.

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