Is it normal to think women have happier/easier/better lives than men?

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  • I agree, they live easier than men. They get away with crimes more often, they get harsher punishments for their crimes, etc.
    A man touches a woman's breasts or backside, and he can get prosecuted for sexual harrassment. If a woman does it to a man, it is listed as "other sexual violence"...

    The education system has changed to suit the progression of the woman mind set, while going against the mens.

    Domestic violence is 40% done by women, but you never hear about it.
    A lot of rape by women on men isn't considered rape.

    Custody, the woman will almost always get custody, which could be why so many men commit suicide after divorce.

    A woman can live a life by being pregnant. She can fall pregnant after knowing she has no way to support the child herself, and she'll be given child support from the taxpayers money. A lot of women do this just for money aswell.
    If a woman falls pregnant to a man that doesn't want to be a father in any way, he has 0% choice in that, but is expected to share 50% responsibility.
    Women can have abortions or put children up for adoption to avoid parenthood, but males have it forced on them. Parenthood can ruin someone's future plans if they weren't expecting it. People say to such people "You should of kept it in your pants", but you never hear such remarks when a woman wants an abortion, when she avoids parenthood, she is allowed, and it's seen as "poor woman", not "what a deadbeat mother". If there is one thing a man can legally force on to a woman in which she has no control of stopping, that ruins her future plans, then tell me.

    "Equaliity" in itself is an ironic statement. Men have done far more for society/civilization than women, they arethe ones advancing most of technology, repaitring and building new buildings, etc.
    The irony of it is that while men have done more (as a gender), they are forced to say they're equal to the group that hasn't done as much. It's not equal to call two groups equal when one of the groups is more capable to invent create, and progress faster than the other group, that's treating them equally, that doesn't make it equality.
    (That doesn't mean I expect to be treated as the men that done great. I'm speaking about the gender as a group, not as individuals)

    A lot of people see males as "potential criminals" even before they leave the womb.

    Females can go on national TV and mock and make fun of a man that got mutilated for his penis getting cut off for doing nothing more than asking for a divorce. If a man done it, you would be demanding they be fired from the show.
    They laugh at such a man, but then frown upon when things like that happen to women in places like Iran.

    Man in pain today is molded in to "comedy", women in pain is molded as a tragedy.

    Society raises their males as being the victimizers, never the victims, but do the opposite for females.

    I like to stay a man, I would like to because I like being in the same gender as the ones that has built so many civilizations.

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    • I agree with a lot of what you said, but I do think some of the facts you state have more to them than meets the eye. I whole-heartedly agree that women are unfair about the entire pregnancy and children ordeal. Men get virtually no say-so where their own children are concerned and that's completely unfair. Women also get lesser punishments in the judicial system. Black men are most targeted, even though statistics state equality in most crimes.
      Where I cannot completely agree is when you state women didn't do as much for civilizations. You are right about that, but what you should take into consideration is that they weren't allowed to do much of anything until recently. Now that they can, most contribute equally, in many different ways.
      Women and men do their part equally in destruction and in sacrifice. Women get away with more and men let them.

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      • Yes, they contribute to society as it is, no doubt. What I meant is that more men are contributing to the evolution of our society. I should of made that more clear.

        I dissagree with the destruction and in sacrifice part. Men are the ones that cause most negatives in our world (most criminals are men), but their good outdoes their evil (the ones that invented and created). In sacrifice I would still have to dissagree. Far more men than women have died in the work place due to being given the more dangerous parts of the job. And even in the military, women are allowed to sign up, but there are not nearly as much as male soldiers.

        As for the black inequality, I agree. It is a shame.

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        • I absolutely also agree about workforce. Women sucker up not taking physical risk, though they are more than capable. I meant to say they sacrifice in other ways. Like helping with the nurturing side of society that men can't get to, etc. They certainly have destroyed in emotional ways that most men wouldn't have bothered with. Physically, women don't contribute much, but emotionally they contributed immensely, and so it balances. In my opinion.

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    • I understand exactly what perspective you are looking at, and I agree to a small degree. Women get sexually harassed in aggressive mannors, whereas men are seldom able to be approached in such mannor by a woman and when they are they usually enjoy it. So the small cases where men are actually being sexually harassed those DO get taken care of with equal force so you are wrong in that aspect, most men just invite it though. Yes domestic violence is 40% done by women, 60% still being MEN, and when a woman tries to rape a man, how does he get it up if he's not into it? Those who do rape by the few means to get a man up unwillingly, are proescuted as well.

      On your next point, skullbrain, YES women are looked at as pieces of s**t for abortion. They can't do anything about it once they're knocked up though, aside from abortion where as the daddy can just dip like so many of you kind gentleman do. Now days, if a man doesn't want the child to go on adoption he has every right to prevent it. Don't act like girls don't get told they shouldn't have "left it in their pants." How many single mothers are looked down upon as sluts? Even more of them are sneered at for being deadbeat moms when they avoid parenthood. Just because you have chosen to associate with the part of society that chooses to bypass that isn't a reason to belittle the female gender. Not once have I ever heard unborn boys to be considered "potential criminals," not on tv, not in newspapers or magazines or even jail houses or any of the above, so go ahead and shove that one right back up your a**.

      The women who go on national TV and mock men for any reason whatsoever are the trash of our species, don't act like men don't have that scum in their gender pool either.

      A man in tears is more heartwrenching than a woman in tears. Any human with a heart can tell you that because women are emotional, we cry because we're happy or we're sad or we're excited or overwhelmed. When a man cries on the other hand, it brings empathy out of us and compassion, it is most definately not something of humor. We are on equal playing fields.

      Men have it simplier in the essence that they can knock up a girl and then just ditch, we can't just walk away from our womb sorry to break it to you.

      Women are also oppressed because of bullheaded morons like you who actually think we haven't contributed as much to our technology and such!? There are MANY women in history who contributed and got their "sunshine" and credit stolen by a greedy man who thinks women are inferior and shouldn't be recognized for their worth. Only up until recently are we actually acknowledged for our contributions so thank you for proving a point on how much harder women have to work to even get a pat on the back you cold hearded bastard.

      Even the women who are fully capable of doing a "man's" work gets rejected because of sexism so for you to try to say we don't do as much is just proving my point that MEN still opress women because of macho mentality.

      Years back maybe men would have had it more difficult having to be the provider and whatnot but now a days women are expected to take on that same roll as provider as well as raise the children clean the house do the cooking and "please" the man, so even on that note women have it more difficult. Thats excluding the expectation of beauty that is forced upon as since birth.

      You are a pitiful excuse of the human race, ItDuz. Open your mind.

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      • Sexual harrassment against males happen all the time, it just isn't considered sexual abuse, because like you said, they are expected to "like it". Do you know how many men don't come forward because of that alone? That they should of "enjoyed it"? A lot. Do you know that domestic violence is 40% female on male, that's nearly half, but you never hear about such things.
        They do get taken care of do they? Are you familiar with the case when three 8th grader females force stripped a 6th grade boy? He was screaming, telling them to stop, shouting for him mother to help them, but they continued and successfully striped the boy in public. The whole incident got recorded as "just some girls playing a prank". Now tell me, what would of happened if three older boys done that to a younger girl? My point exactly...Oh, did I miss the part when it was recorded? Yes, one of the girls was recording it happen aswell, and even with video evidence, they were ot charged. Sono, they don't get taken care of. Actually, the percentage of sexual harrassments not taken seriously is higher when males are the victims than it is when women are the victims.
        But I guess because you give in to this "men are the victimizers" media that what is said on TV must be truth, right?

        Wow, what? Are you serious? "If men get an erection, they must want to be raped...What? They're procecuted are they? You mean like if an adult female teacher has sexual relations with a fourteen yearold student? Oh, I forgot; Debra Levave. She got away with being a pedophile, no jail time.

        Not by all. Not all women are looked at it as if it's bad, and the majority believe that a woman has the choice or not, and if you don't believe me, look up the polls that have been on this site that will show you that. Yes, a lot of people dissagree with it, but the majority agree that abortion is allowed. They can just dip? So, women are allowed to avoid their responsibility of parenthood by abortion, but the male isn't allowed to avoid theirs? Great logic, the feminist mind that thinks such a thing is equality. Also, the fact is that they aren't allowed to do that, they either have to pay child support or be part of the child's life, where as with abortions they don't have to worry about any of that.

        Actually, not all states do that, a lot of states don't require a man's say when it comes to putting a child up for adoption. Do some research before acting like you know what you're talking about.

        Women don't get nearly as much harrassment for avoiding their responsibilities as a mother as much as men do, usually when it was the woman wanting a child and the father not wanting the child, so he gets ridiculed for not taking responsibility of the child he never wanted, where as a woman having an abortion is "demonstrating her rights, a strong woman, etc".

        No, single mothers aren't "looked down upon", they are seen as "strong women" to raise children all on their own. Where the hell do you live, Mars? So far everything you have said is the opposite of what actually happens in society. When they avoid parenthood? What? They are not sneered at for it, they are seen as "independant women". Don't even try pretend that women get negative attention by the majority for having abortions.
        Really? Google it, you'll see that many people say such things about unborned children. So how about you do some research and then come back with a witty statsement like "shove it up your ass", because without actually doing any research, you're just making a fool of yourself.

        Did I say men don't have scum in their gender? No. I was stating that women get away with it, on national television. Feel free to prove me wrong that there is a man to do anything close to mocking a mutilated woman. That wasn't sarcasm, I actually want you to search for such a thing and post it here.

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        • When men cry? Are you kidding me? I've seen so many men get ridiculed for crying, by females specificly, so don't say that it is "heartwrecking" as if all females, or even most are like that.

          "Sorry to break it to you", but you can have abortions, and males aren't allowed to avoid responsibility of their child, they either have to take care of it or pay for it, where as a woman can just get rid of the responsibility. "sorry to break it to you". It's much harder for males to rid of parenthood responsibility than it is for females, mainly because the law allows women to get rid of responsibility and not men.

          That isn't oprression, that is facts, women haven't contributed to science, engineering, and all other types of inventions as much as men, that's not an opinion, that is fact. That is another thing women do, they call it "oppression", when a man states a fact that isn't in the female gender's favour.

          Did I say women haven't contributed? No, I said women haven't contributed as much.
          And oh my God, here comes the feminist propaganda. Where did this information come from? That men stole credit from women? Where? Look back far enough, and you'll see that there is no actual facts that state such things, only opinions that have started by feminists.

          Women aren't capable of doing "man's work" as much as men because "man's work" involves physical strength, which men are better at. Hey, if you want a firewoman trying to bust down a door ina house fire with you on the other side but can't because she lacks the physical strength to do so, then you go ahead, but I would much rather put my hands in the person that has the traits best to do the job. And in actual fact, women are more likely to be hired because they're women, in fear of being sued for sexism. That's right, if a man is more qualified than a woman, let's say in the firebragade, but there are far more men than women, the woman will be hired, simply so the boss can dodge being made out to be sexist.

          Not to mention, by hiring a woman, you risk having to pay her while she isn't working for being pregnant, where as males don't have that problem, and even though that's a good reason, it'#s deemed as "sexist".

          I'm not saying women don't contribut to society, I'm saying they don't contribute as much at progressing society, two different things.

          You're a feminist, I can just tell. What woman in today's world is expected to have children, work, please her man, clean, cook, etc. Please, give me an example of this, because I am yet to see a woman have to do all those things by herself.

          Expectation of beauty? Here we go again. You do realize that men also have to do this? Not only that, but they have to work harder for their beauty, they have to gain muscle, where as women only have to lose weight, and that's not even the man's fault. Nobody is making them have to be beautiful, they are doing it themselves to feel sexually attractive to males, they aren't forced to be beautiful for men, they chose to be.

          Judging by your view of the "human race", I wouldgladly be the pityful one from your "human race", but as for the actual human race and the actual things that happen in the real human race, you are nothing more than a raging feminist with no idea on society, the real one.

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    • They don't get harsher punishment like men for their crimes*

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