Is it normal to think why is sex so important to teen girls?

Why cant they wait till they find the right guy?

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Based on 83 votes (63 yes)
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  • Why is sex so important to teen boys? Why can't they wait till they find the right girl?

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      ya girls r 2 akward to talk bout it, teen guys r the ones who are jerks and players

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  • Glass

    Because humans like sex, and not everyone shares your views.

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    • Alison89

      Simple, but accurate.

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  • Ono

    Maybe some teenage girls think they have found the one or aren't interested in finding one.

    Just because some people 'save' themselves it doesn't make them better or mean that it is the right choice for everyone else.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I'm in my teens and I've often wondered "why"?

    True some people are wrongly pressured into it or forced and they don't get to blossom into the concept on their own.

    Why can't people take time to find someone they love? Why can't people have it with some form of meaning behind it? I don't understand people who can randomly meet someone and then have sex with them. They barely know them or their medical history and then the next morning they leave like what they did was nonexistent.

    Sex isn't everything. True, I'm a virgin, but at least I can see that there are other important things in the world. If I'm going to be with someone, then I want it to be as long as possible. I'm not here for a meaningless fling. If I'm going love you, than I'm going to try to give you my all and I'd expect you to do the same. Not just for "me". Not just for "us", but for the relationship as a whole.

    What ever, happened to romantics? What ever, happened to loves that were so deep, they could've been etched in stone? I refuse to follow this modern take on "love", but I prefer to follow the old-fashioned kind that actually meant something.

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    • I respect you

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      • Avant-Garde

        Thank you:)

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  • 123Random

    Its just the way society is, I guess in a way it's natural, but like Energy said most are pressured into it, in my opinion.

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  • Energy

    It's not.
    See, most girls are pressured into it.
    I don't mean to sound sexist or anything, infact, I'm a guy myself. What I notice around me though is guys pressuring them into it. Guys are more horny, right? Well, there's lots of nice guys out there but also lots or douche bags.

    So if anything, don't blame it on just girls. It's society as a WHOLE.

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    • Agreed

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    • IINtobeaninjasquirrel?

      Girls aren't necessarily less horny than boys, they're just much better at hiding their boners.

      In other words, they don't have a penis, so it's less noticeable.

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  • ishitpandas

    Reality

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  • milkymum

    its very diffecault beeing a teen girl, you get far too much attention from men then you get teen boys always going on about sex and breasts. alot like me get pressured in to having sex and once you started you get a reputation and then teen boys with there hormonies know who to go for a ride, also society doesnt help as its in everones faces all the time.

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  • Because... they want to have sex? They like sex? They never end up finding the right guy period?

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  • Rhuarc

    people shouldn't have sex until about 18 because honestly you have no reason at 16 your just asking to screw your life up royally.

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  • visualguy

    Because sex is so much fun and they can't wait to try. The entire culture is sex-based. I hope my daughters are smarter than the hype.

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  • rock-chick

    i think its normal becoz if u in a relatiomship and u hav sex it brings u alot more closer than u think but not always becoz not all guys are the same so its normal but i wuld advice to wait bcoz u might regret it in the future

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  • Because women are 7 years ahead of men and have i higher sex drive.

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  • 011assassin

    Sex is so stupid, People will sacrifice there happiness and beliefs just to have sex. So no I think about it as well.

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  • 1marcelfilms

    Who cares about the right boy... Let them have fun, theyr problem

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  • tentacleTherapist

    Wait, what? Almost no girl in my school wants to have sex. The guys are perverted but pussies beyond compare....

    All I care about is finding my dream fuckin' guy, which probably won't fuckin' happen.

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    • Where are you from? and which school?

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      • tentacleTherapist

        A small town 30 minutes from Boston. Everyone's a wigger/pussy/ghettoass fuck so nothing special happens.

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  • Ramit10

    Cause sex is awesome! Girls and guys are more open to try new things. Their urges make them want it more.

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  • joybird

    They want to prove they're adults :o)) and do what adults do.
    Child brain 0-25, adult brain 25+

    I agree with Energy, it's hormonal bfs and the girls think that's the way to keep them :o(

    Adult women know to keep the man waiting for sex until he proves himself worthy of her - so he treats her right and respects her. Young girls have yet to learn that very important lesson and so 'put the cart before the horse'.

    The saddest thing is that, they may destroy their whole future - either with a baby or missing out on their education or losing their reputation :o((

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    • I think that making a man wait for sex until he proves himself he respects me and treats me right I wont do anything and I'm only 18 and thats always been my logic... so does that mean I'm mature for my age when I've always been considered really immature to everyone?

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      • joybird

        You maybe understand boys / men better than other girls or you have morals.

        You may be immature in other ways - but so what, you're only 18. Enjoy yourself!!

        There's plenty of time to get sensible and responsible.

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        • Ha-ha I think I understand how boys think but people laugh at this idea and treat me like a little child... I'll go with morals. I can't really enjoy myself at this momentum I have to think about my career... I think I’m sensible and responsible but to others I come off as a care free spontaneous person who goes with the flow. Ha-ha but you know what’s funny I freak out when I lose my pencil or something so simple and when it involves almost getting into the principal’s office where there’s a chance of suspension or something I act so clam and can deal with it as if it’s no big deal, just ruining my entire education I’ve worked so hard to build!

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          • joybird

            My son's exactly the same. Cool facade but a perfectionist set on his education!!

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    • And i agree with you

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  • piman

    well my best friend whos a girl (im a guy) had a boyfriend her freshman year in highschool. he was a typical stocky and hick-like--such as most of my town is. they had a very sexual relationship according to her. finally he dumped her because he didnt like the sex as much. just goes to show that it is the guy that starts it. but the girl should still be able to end it with a simple stop.

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    • Alison89

      I don't understand your story. You knew them. They had sex. He didn't like it as much. That shows the guy starts it and she should be able to stop it?

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