Is it normal to think that women hate sex?

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I mean honestly. I have never met a women who enjoyed swallowing like I do. (bisex lol) I have only heard "ewww semen"

And when I talk to anyone, really interact with people, especially women, I just feel like I am forever going to be alone sexually.

I have a girlfriend, and she is sexually active, in the sense that I take care of her needs. But she never reciprocates, mostly because the things that I need to get off (I have problems doing that) she does not like. So sex is entirely one way.

Yeah I do have a different idea of sex, and I have fucked myself up sexually where it takes way more effort than it should to get me off, and I like weird things. Some things are a bit... unreasonable but I like more than just a few things.

But is what I think: That I am lucky to have a girl that even tolerates touching on her clit. That women hate sex, they hate orgasms, they hate penises, they hate themselves, and every last woman on earth thinks of their body as something utterly disgusting and gross that can only sometimes be used as a manipulation tool for men. That sexual contact is icky and gross, and that there are only three reasons why a woman would have sex at all.

Control. "Yeah.. uh... I really.... love you....."

Money "Alright I'll let you eat my poop but ONLY for 3 million dollars"

Babies "Oh god my husband is going to cum in me ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew oh god is this what being raped feels like?"

My idea of female sexuality is that when a woman touches her clit it makes her nauseous and disgusted with herself that she even feels something so unnatural and vulgar.

Yes, me(if F) and every woman I know hates sex 2
Yes, but I am/my gf is the exception. 0
No, but I/my gf doesn't like sex 1
Nope, you are pretty much wrong on the whole thing 19
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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    Do you know where these ideas have come from? Because I can tell you that it's definitely, definitely not true. Having sex with a disinterested partner sucks, but it definitely isn't the norm for girls to be disinterested in sex. How could anyone hate orgasms? :P Girls aren't asexual - at least, not most of them.

    At the risk of touching a nerve, do you think it could possibly be you? Especially if you have uncommon likes and dislikes, it's not surprising that the women you know would be disinterested.

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    • i3ear
      10 years ago

      It is probably me. Every time I have tried to be with a woman in the past I have been severely rejected...

      I am beginning to think that this is just what life is. One rejection after another.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Your comments and posts seem like they are fueled by alcohol or a bad manic episode or something...I am not trying to be mean either.

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      • Gspyder
        10 years ago

        That's exactly what a dating life is. A series of rejections and disappointments until you find one that makes those not matter anymore. And girls love sex. Some as much as guys love it. The few that don't are the weird ones.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    No, most women do not hate sex. You might just have weird preferences that most people are not into. Your shit eating comment does not help that case. Its possible your girlfriend does not like sex, but from what I have seen you post, you have odd fetishes as well.
    Also complaining about yourself is never a good trait and will only turn people away. Everyone has problems but assuming people will reject or pity you shows pessistmic thinking, which a lot of people think that way, but it's something you should hide from people until they know you well. After a while you may even forget about those thoughts.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      That's my purse!!!!!!! **kicks bugs directly in the nuts**

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  • zenparadox
    10 years ago

    A lot of vibrators get sold to orgasm hating women... I mean don't you see your logic is off. Now a lot of people, men and women alike are inhibited, I feel you are very wrong about women. I'm a woman and have issues with my bf that sound maybe mildet but similar to yours (takes a lot to get me off slightly unususl specific interests requests and f'd upness in a very lovely way of course, but even if I'm wrong (I'm not) & you're right (you're not) about women - why do u care if you're bisexual. Date a guy

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    I think many women are scared of admitting they are interested in sex because they could be called "sluts". Society has a way of wanting women to suppress their sexuality.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I smell troll.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I bet trolls smell like dad breath.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        *wonders what dad breath smells like*

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          I guess it is pretty similar to old guy breath???

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            YUCK!

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      • i3ear
        10 years ago

        Are you implying I am an alcoholic?

        .... and for that matter so was your dad~?

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    • charli.m
      10 years ago

      I smell retard more than troll.

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    • i3ear
      10 years ago

      Where? I don't smell troll D:

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  • charli.m
    10 years ago

    Well you're fucking clueless, aren't you?

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    • i3ear
      10 years ago

      Your going to have pity on me and reject me like every other girl that exists huh?

      Your probably not gonna reply because you won't have anything nice to say to a "worthless example of the male gender" like me ._.

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      • charli.m
        10 years ago

        What are you blabbering about?

        You go and make sweeping, uninformed and ridiculous generalisations about women, saying we're all frigid bitches who manipulate men for our own selfish needs and you expect sweetness and light?

        As Dom suggests...I suspect the problem lies with you.

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        • Crusades
          10 years ago

          You do nothing but enforce his view on women based on the fact that you prove the stereotype that it's always the man's fault "I suspect the problem lies with you". Of course in your feeble mind you're gonna put the blame on the man, because you were taught by society to hide your flaws, to look perfect to the world. And when a man sees through your bullshit and recognizes the true nature of most women, you instinctively become hostile, trying to silent the voice of the rare ones who are beginning to crack the shell around them that society has indoctrinated them with.
          And this isn't only based on a random man's assumption and observations. There are studies and statistics showing that independent women are highly unlikely to be in a relationship or even date.
          Most women who are in relationships are women who are in the beginning of their career path, or women who are dependent on a man's financial support.

          What does that tell you?

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          • charli.m
            10 years ago

            I'm not saying all men are wrong. I'm saying this person, who happens to be male, is wrong, based on the information he has supplied.

            Using big words doesn't make you smart, Krissy. You score 0% for your comprehension skills and general ability.

            Now go play with the other kids, this is the grown ups site.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Cheesus.

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