Absolutely there's a distinct difference. BDSM is leather corsets and whips and restraints and dungeons. And Spanking is an upturned bottom being smacked, paddled or strapped - in a living room, a bedroom, a classroom, wherever.
The exclusive focusing of attention on someone's bottom is much more central to the spanking experience than it is to BDSM. I love my bare bum being the star of the show when I'm getting spanked. BDSM is far more concerned with Dominance & Submission.
Is it normal to think that spanking is not BDSM?
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Absolutely there's a distinct difference. BDSM is leather corsets and whips and restraints and dungeons. And Spanking is an upturned bottom being smacked, paddled or strapped - in a living room, a bedroom, a classroom, wherever.
The exclusive focusing of attention on someone's bottom is much more central to the spanking experience than it is to BDSM. I love my bare bum being the star of the show when I'm getting spanked. BDSM is far more concerned with Dominance & Submission.