Is it normal to think that i’m turning gay?

I’m a guy and I’m a friendly person. I try to talk to girls but it’s almost like they’re just standoffish. I’m not coming on too strong and I can pick up on social cues. I’ve been told many times that I’m a handsome guy but I understand that looks aren’t everything. It’s almost like I feel as if they think I’m a creep or like I’m gonna try to hurt them. I have a lot of guy friends and I feel connected to them but it seems like I’m turning gay. I don’t compare myself to others often but it seems like all of them have girlfriends or some type of girl that they talk to and I’m just alone.

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  • Ellenna

    Are you feeling sexual attraction to other males? If yes, that's gay if no, you're not.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Try having gay sex, if you don't like it you're not gay. That's the only way to tell. You have to have a lot of gay sex with many partners if you want to be really sure that you don't like it.

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    • Iszzy123

      This is a man of highest logic and reason

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  • TerriAngel

    I dont know, but Im pretty sure you dont " turn gay "
    You're either that way or your not.
    You are attracted to, exactly what you're attracted to.
    You know what you like.
    Be honest with yourself.

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  • UsedTamponCollector

    I thought like you described. Then I got gangbanged by 100 guys at a bathhouse and loved it! I'm gay now

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  • Aterlierz

    I’m guessing you’re pretty young, I’m going to say chase whomever you wanna chase. If you wanna have a relationship with your bros because you’re more comfortable with them, go for it! Some girls can be a little stand-off-ish, that’s just how we are. It just takes time finding the right girl, we’re not that hard to talk to. Just be nice and we’ll warm up to you. Best of luck!

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Your not gay lol.

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  • cipro

    Pray the gay away: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EQDIJp-5djU

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    • Ennis_Delmar

      Wtf is that?? Don’t listen to this homophobic idiot!! Homophobia is disgusting!! Anyone who says to “pray the gay away” needs to pray themselves away! Christianity and religion are disgusting abhorrent creations made to shame people and only cause harm. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayers_for_Bobby——-Why do you and others think you have the ability and authority to tell others who don’t cause you any harm that loving another human being isn’t ok?!?!? Simply because of gender? Why is it necessary to “pray the gay away”??? The only thing that has ever come from that is people killing themselves! Where do you think you are going to go if a person had killed themself because of a comment like that? Your “jesus or god” isn’t going to save you just because your a straight person! Love and acceptance for all! LOVE IS LOVE! PRIDE!!!

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    • Finthechat

      You cant pray the gay away https://youtu.be/8mLimHwl-WA

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe you are gay, or bisexual?

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