Being myself does not work either. People say be yourself but they do not take everything into account. However this has never given me issues with dating.
However it gives me issues more socially sometimes than it does relationship wise. Anyways I am going to help you on your dating issue. You say you are a bit of a loner so I have to ask do you even want a date or do you just feel pressured to by "Rules of society"? If you can not get along with new people well and you really want a date I would suggest this. Try dating within your group of friends.
Generally when you date WITHIN your group of friends its a lot more casual and a lot less stressful. If you do not have friends I guess you could try something like one of those online dating sites such as <a href="http://match.com" rel="nofollow">match.com</a>. That or engage in activity where you would find other loner people maybe?
I know gamers tend to be loners and people who read a lot. I am not stereotyping either just I know a bunch of these people and they tend to keep to themselves but are very sociable when its something they like. So maybe find people with a similar personality with a common interest?
I really hope this helped. Good-luck solving your issue.
Is it normal to think that "be yourself" never works
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Being myself does not work either. People say be yourself but they do not take everything into account. However this has never given me issues with dating.
However it gives me issues more socially sometimes than it does relationship wise. Anyways I am going to help you on your dating issue. You say you are a bit of a loner so I have to ask do you even want a date or do you just feel pressured to by "Rules of society"? If you can not get along with new people well and you really want a date I would suggest this. Try dating within your group of friends.
Generally when you date WITHIN your group of friends its a lot more casual and a lot less stressful. If you do not have friends I guess you could try something like one of those online dating sites such as <a href="http://match.com" rel="nofollow">match.com</a>. That or engage in activity where you would find other loner people maybe?
I know gamers tend to be loners and people who read a lot. I am not stereotyping either just I know a bunch of these people and they tend to keep to themselves but are very sociable when its something they like. So maybe find people with a similar personality with a common interest?
I really hope this helped. Good-luck solving your issue.