So you meet somebody and you really like them. As the relationship progresses and you are maintaining this pseudo-personality, what happens if you really fall for this person? Would you be able to be this pseudo-person for the rest of your life or are you going to destroy a really good thing because you based it on a lie? That's just plain stupid.
I'm a total and complete asshole and take no shit from anyone, but I've (somehow?) managed to find a few girls who have liked me as I am.
The asshole thing kinda precludes "social skill", believe me. Certainly luck may have had something to do with meeting them, but they are the ones crazy enough to make the effort to get through the "rough exterior".
As for your thoughts of being a "bad person", mass murders on death row get fan mail from so many women; it's absolutely unbelievable. I'd hope you aren't that kind of "bad"? So it's just your self opinion that you are a "bad person".
Is it normal to think that "be yourself" never works
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So you meet somebody and you really like them. As the relationship progresses and you are maintaining this pseudo-personality, what happens if you really fall for this person? Would you be able to be this pseudo-person for the rest of your life or are you going to destroy a really good thing because you based it on a lie? That's just plain stupid.
I'm a total and complete asshole and take no shit from anyone, but I've (somehow?) managed to find a few girls who have liked me as I am.
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Luck and good social skill?
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The asshole thing kinda precludes "social skill", believe me. Certainly luck may have had something to do with meeting them, but they are the ones crazy enough to make the effort to get through the "rough exterior".
As for your thoughts of being a "bad person", mass murders on death row get fan mail from so many women; it's absolutely unbelievable. I'd hope you aren't that kind of "bad"? So it's just your self opinion that you are a "bad person".