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im just wondering if its normal to not want to have sex with anybody whos been with another. i think its horrible to have sex with more then one person. i dont have any specific reasoning. its just the way i feel.
This just shows where your values lie. It doesn't specifically mean that you are correct that it is "horrible" to have more than one sexual partner, or even that you are wrong. It's just an opinion. In reality, barring promiscuity, there are a myriad of situations that I won't even bother going into right now that would make having multiple sexual partners the only logical, ethical and moral option. I would encourage you to try to broaden your perspectives a bit and not be too quick to judge so broadly.
best of luck to you!
I think sex is horrible, but at the same time, I daydream about it, and I please myself. I just think thats ALL guys think about at all times. I know thats not the case all the time, but its just what I think.
im not religous at all. and part of the reason i dont like it is because everyone accepts it now as normal and they've all learned to see past it even if it would used to be looked down upon. now its something you see everywhere.
It will be almost impossible to find someone in these days that has not has sex with someone else.Rock on!
You sound like a good christian.Hopefully you practice what you preach and don't set a double standard by having sex with multiple virgins.
if I ever get married I want her to be a virgin. but probably I will never get married anyway :)
why did u come back to this a month and a week later? also, we broke up. She said she didn't want restrictions of dating anymore and wanted to go have fun. a few days later she tried getting back together with me. it didnt happen because i did not like what she said when she was trying to get back. she said "i made a mistake. not a bad mistake. but still. so do you wana get back together?"
is not horrible... but i can see why you wanna have sex with just 1 (specially if you hit jack pot and you nail the right one in the first go)
Yes if you're very young. You're mind change later. I know a couple that married a guy that had never had sex. She was young. Turns out she was normal sexually and he was too inhibited for any kind of sex. He couldn't even talk about it. They've been married for 20 years and she's miserable and she makes him miserable. I admire your values but don't be too rigid or you may end up like her. She's too religious to divorce him.
For me sex has always been something of great sentimental value, which I think a lot of people have forgotten about in the last decade. Whether you're religious or not, sex is a big deal and should be treated as such. However, I don't think that sex is horrible or people who have had sex before are any worse because for it (although in excess it is pretty questionable).
If you're religious, then likely what you're feeling is normal. In fact, the idea that anybody you're dating has been with someone else, other than you, can be quite discomforting. However, this doesn't make it wrong. People fall in love, fall in lust, make mistakes and learn from them. Sex is perfectly natural, and something you just have to accept and move on.
What's important is that the person you're with is with you now. As uncomfortable as it may be that they've shared sexual experiences with someone else, it's largely just a way of life. Learn from the past, accept the preset, and look forward to the future.
to me it sounds normal. i think that it just might be something that came from your mom or dad. mabe even grandparents. but in other words just try to do it once and see how it feels after that. but if it doesn't than dont worry about it. its fine. but dont trust my answer. im not a doctor.
well... everyone has their own views on this debate, I think it depends on who you do it with but not so much as to who has done it already... if you get what I mean.
just the way it is these days, nothing in this world is pure and if you can see through the inperfections, you will see truth.