Is it normal to think physical pleasure kills love?

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Hi,
Sometimes I fear that plysical pleasure, that being orgasm, might be actually killing little by little love between partners.(especially long term partners)
Sometimes I wonder if it is love-healthy to perform some types of sex(like oral or anal).

Sometimes it just.. doesn't feel right(when receiving oral sex for example).

And, logically speaking, some types of sex are in a sense 'unatural'(-we weren't suppose to perform them nor denied-) can they be considered "loving"?
Isn't it just raw physical pleasure, raw exploitation of another person's body? How loving is that?

But let me not mislead you with my(above) comments, I only want to know If I'm the only person that things that physical pleasure is for somereason
(that would be another "?" for me) harmfull to "love".

(Not that I can define "love")

And I don't expect the answer to this to be a "yes" or "no",
I know it's more complicated than that, but I want to know if you "see" some sort of contradiction as well.

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  • imsassy
    12 years ago | pl

    There is something very erotic about pure sexual pleasure with your partner. Also to be able to be completly honest about your body and what you like. I think it it makes love grow between two people.

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  • jennaj
    13 years ago | pl

    I think it brings people closer together sharing an orgasm, if I was married n we weren't sexually active I would love him less!

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