Is it normal to think people who dress for attention deep down want it

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  • Noone is ever 'asking for it'. Don't lower yourself to the mentality of a rapist.

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    • I never used the term "asking for it". I dont think how someone dresses is ever an excuse for assault.

      This is mainly for someone who would say they dont want attention and get sick of being approached BUT continuously wear suggestive clothing, string tight bikinis, short skirts and tube tops, etc....

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      • it's the same mentality.

        What many men don't understand is that women don't always dress up for THEM.

        Most times they're not even thinking about you. They're just thinking about getting their stuff done and not looking like shit.

        Yet with some guys, if a woman puts any effort into looking good they automatically assume "o yeah she wants it!".

        O_o

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        • But isnt there a difference in looking good, i.e. not looking like shit, and dressing in a real "slutty" way.

          I know its a real gray area though.

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          • your problem may be the fact that you think they're dressed sluttily while they think "o I just put on some workout clothes."

            You ASSUME they're dressing to entice you when that may be the last thing on their mind.

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