Is it normal to think people who dress for attention deep down want it

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  • That's crazy. Glad I've never had that happen to me like that. Although half the time I don't even realize a guy is hitting on me because well I'm not seeking attention, I'm not flirty at all and plus I'm always in my own little world.

    Just because apparently I'm attractive doesn't ever mean I seek attention. I truly can be rather introverted at times.

    I have an ex guy friend though that always called me a cock tease because apparently being friendly to people is being sexual. lol. He's what I call an attention seeker, he always said that I was sexually attractive and was manipulative.

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    • Exactly!

      He tried calling you a "cock tease" and "manipulative"... NOT because you were... but simply because he was attracted to you and you didn't put out.

      I mean WTF. Are you suppose to go around dressing in 20 layers of clothing just to make sure some guy doesn't pop a boner and accuse you of "deserving it" when he hits on you? Hell even then there's no guarantee he's not going to want to hit on you.

      THIS is why it's unreasonable to assume girls "want" attention just because they're dressed attractively.

      Some individuals use their erections as excuses to act boorish and think that saying " you deserved it for getting me so hot" is a reasonable excuse.

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      • I love this conversation.lol

        But yeah, I guess you just have to live life as it is. If they want to accuse you of something that you never did and disagree on it then just F them. I just like to dress nice and clean for everybody.

        If a guy wants to call me a b**** for being attractive and not letting him hit on me, then go ahead.

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