My opinion is completely different on stalking, stalking entails repeated attempts even after being rebuffed numerous times.
Perhaps she made a mistake in wearing that outfit one time, but continuously wearing it while complaining about the unwanted attention would lead me to believe she likes it.
No. Again just because you find it attractive does not mean it's provocative. It ONLY means your body reacted and you decided it's OK to treat her like a whore.
I had one guy complain about how I was "dressed like that" as if I was dressed like a whore.... Yet I was completely dressed in pants & a white tshirt.
What really happened was that he was hard up for some so any woman who was attractive and not completely covered from head to foot was trying to entice him.
Like when I went to the middle east the last time. I had someone on the base gate act shocked at what I was wearing, how ... naughty... I was dressed.
O_o
I had on a solid tshirt (not even form fitting just a regular tshirt) and capris style pants.
The "sensational" part was that my fucking ankles and half of my calves were visible.
Again just because you get a hard on does not mean the woman deserves you hitting on her. Sometimes you need to learn self control.
Hmm, I enjoy the discussion, hope the same is for you.
I do understand what you are saying regarding how it is ultimately up to each person to have self control over themselves for sure. And your experience in the middle east was hopefully an isolated incident especially considering what you were wearing.
BUT, put yourself in the situation alongside hearing someone say they dont like the attention they are getting, perhaps even hearing it continuously, you would NEVER be tempted to say alright well mayby since that dress causes that reaction you shouldnt wear it out anymore, OR well that workout outfit is pretty "lean", mayby if the attention that it draws isnt what you want you should think twice before wearing it?
I promise this is the last time I present this to you.
That's crazy. Glad I've never had that happen to me like that. Although half the time I don't even realize a guy is hitting on me because well I'm not seeking attention, I'm not flirty at all and plus I'm always in my own little world.
Just because apparently I'm attractive doesn't ever mean I seek attention. I truly can be rather introverted at times.
I have an ex guy friend though that always called me a cock tease because apparently being friendly to people is being sexual. lol. He's what I call an attention seeker, he always said that I was sexually attractive and was manipulative.
He tried calling you a "cock tease" and "manipulative"... NOT because you were... but simply because he was attracted to you and you didn't put out.
I mean WTF. Are you suppose to go around dressing in 20 layers of clothing just to make sure some guy doesn't pop a boner and accuse you of "deserving it" when he hits on you? Hell even then there's no guarantee he's not going to want to hit on you.
THIS is why it's unreasonable to assume girls "want" attention just because they're dressed attractively.
Some individuals use their erections as excuses to act boorish and think that saying " you deserved it for getting me so hot" is a reasonable excuse.
But yeah, I guess you just have to live life as it is. If they want to accuse you of something that you never did and disagree on it then just F them. I just like to dress nice and clean for everybody.
If a guy wants to call me a b**** for being attractive and not letting him hit on me, then go ahead.
Is it normal to think people who dress for attention deep down want it
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She is dressed for working out PROVACATIVELY.
My opinion is completely different on stalking, stalking entails repeated attempts even after being rebuffed numerous times.
Perhaps she made a mistake in wearing that outfit one time, but continuously wearing it while complaining about the unwanted attention would lead me to believe she likes it.
No?
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No. Again just because you find it attractive does not mean it's provocative. It ONLY means your body reacted and you decided it's OK to treat her like a whore.
I had one guy complain about how I was "dressed like that" as if I was dressed like a whore.... Yet I was completely dressed in pants & a white tshirt.
What really happened was that he was hard up for some so any woman who was attractive and not completely covered from head to foot was trying to entice him.
Like when I went to the middle east the last time. I had someone on the base gate act shocked at what I was wearing, how ... naughty... I was dressed.
O_o
I had on a solid tshirt (not even form fitting just a regular tshirt) and capris style pants.
The "sensational" part was that my fucking ankles and half of my calves were visible.
Again just because you get a hard on does not mean the woman deserves you hitting on her. Sometimes you need to learn self control.
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Hmm, I enjoy the discussion, hope the same is for you.
I do understand what you are saying regarding how it is ultimately up to each person to have self control over themselves for sure. And your experience in the middle east was hopefully an isolated incident especially considering what you were wearing.
BUT, put yourself in the situation alongside hearing someone say they dont like the attention they are getting, perhaps even hearing it continuously, you would NEVER be tempted to say alright well mayby since that dress causes that reaction you shouldnt wear it out anymore, OR well that workout outfit is pretty "lean", mayby if the attention that it draws isnt what you want you should think twice before wearing it?
I promise this is the last time I present this to you.
That's crazy. Glad I've never had that happen to me like that. Although half the time I don't even realize a guy is hitting on me because well I'm not seeking attention, I'm not flirty at all and plus I'm always in my own little world.
Just because apparently I'm attractive doesn't ever mean I seek attention. I truly can be rather introverted at times.
I have an ex guy friend though that always called me a cock tease because apparently being friendly to people is being sexual. lol. He's what I call an attention seeker, he always said that I was sexually attractive and was manipulative.
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Exactly!
He tried calling you a "cock tease" and "manipulative"... NOT because you were... but simply because he was attracted to you and you didn't put out.
I mean WTF. Are you suppose to go around dressing in 20 layers of clothing just to make sure some guy doesn't pop a boner and accuse you of "deserving it" when he hits on you? Hell even then there's no guarantee he's not going to want to hit on you.
THIS is why it's unreasonable to assume girls "want" attention just because they're dressed attractively.
Some individuals use their erections as excuses to act boorish and think that saying " you deserved it for getting me so hot" is a reasonable excuse.
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I love this conversation.lol
But yeah, I guess you just have to live life as it is. If they want to accuse you of something that you never did and disagree on it then just F them. I just like to dress nice and clean for everybody.
If a guy wants to call me a b**** for being attractive and not letting him hit on me, then go ahead.