maybe they are just confident or less self aware or maybe they just don't care. there is no answer to this question. people are all different and you can't lump people together as "attention seekers" because they have a reaction to negative attention. we all have unique combinations of different experiences that lead to our actions. plus whats so bad about wanting attention? humans are social creatures, we all need attention.
and there are different types of attention too. maybe the guy with no shirt wants someone to see how hard he has worked on improving his body, but instead he gets some asshole teasing him.
so i think the question is more that "what conditions result in some people not knowing how to get the kind of attention that yields positive reactions in appropriate situations?"
wow, im a dork.
I dont have a particular problem with someone wanting attention, though I do tend to think that those that actively seek out have some sort of insecurity that they try to fill through seeking attention. I personally dont care about attention one way or another. The point of this question is the contradiction in someone dressing for attention, then complaining about it when its given. Or lets say putting up a picture on facebook of themselves in lingerie which doesnt really belong there, then mentioning about how they cant stand the attention its getting?
Doesnt make much sense does it? I mean a picture of you and your family at a birthday party would fit better if you didnt want attention. That particular person WANTED the attention that the suggestive picture would cause.
Is it normal to think people who dress for attention deep down want it
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maybe they are just confident or less self aware or maybe they just don't care. there is no answer to this question. people are all different and you can't lump people together as "attention seekers" because they have a reaction to negative attention. we all have unique combinations of different experiences that lead to our actions. plus whats so bad about wanting attention? humans are social creatures, we all need attention.
and there are different types of attention too. maybe the guy with no shirt wants someone to see how hard he has worked on improving his body, but instead he gets some asshole teasing him.
so i think the question is more that "what conditions result in some people not knowing how to get the kind of attention that yields positive reactions in appropriate situations?"
wow, im a dork.
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I dont have a particular problem with someone wanting attention, though I do tend to think that those that actively seek out have some sort of insecurity that they try to fill through seeking attention. I personally dont care about attention one way or another. The point of this question is the contradiction in someone dressing for attention, then complaining about it when its given. Or lets say putting up a picture on facebook of themselves in lingerie which doesnt really belong there, then mentioning about how they cant stand the attention its getting?
Doesnt make much sense does it? I mean a picture of you and your family at a birthday party would fit better if you didnt want attention. That particular person WANTED the attention that the suggestive picture would cause.