Being turned on by the thought of having sex with your own father or son is unnatural. It's different if your thinking about someone your father's age but getting turned on by the thought of your actual father....No that is sick. So I assume something must of happened to both of them as children, something disturbing which would interfer with thier sexuality. Even though she said No, Maybe its a repressed memory and they were actually sexually abused. All I know is that I find it hard to believe that there is no reason for it, that they coincidentally just both naturally have these thoughts. Energy attracts the same type of energy and they both sound a little off....well a lot. Would you feel comfortable knowing that your dad thinks about you when he's having sex. That's not normal, its called incest. But I suppose as long as they don't act on it, it won't hurt anyone but I still think there is an underlying reason.
He is almost my father's age. But he isn't my actual father. So how is it sick? And no, there was no sexual abuse at all. You may find it hard to believe, but that is the truth. I would know better than anyone, thank you very much. And what do you mean "as long as they don't act on it"? Act on what? Neither of us have thoughts of anyone else.
You are mistaken. Normal sex is plenty exciting for us. We don't do this all the time. No molestation has ever/will ever occur. I've stated that plainly several times.
"Thank you for this. Actually though, my husband is nothing like my father. I was never close with my father; we didn't have much of a relationship at all until I was 20. Maybe that's part of it. "
Ok so maybe that's why you got daddy issues.
Most girls do have daddy issues if he wasn't around when younger but AFAIK they don't fantasize they're fucking him.
Maybe it's your way of dealing with abandonment issues.
You shouldn't rule out the possibility of him molesting you.
Maybe your mom caught him and that's why she got rid of him and he wasn't around.
Your conscious mind forgets/blocks out traumatic experiences but your subconscious mind doesn't forget and it's your subconscious mind that controls things and makes you who you are.
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
Did your hymen 'break' and bleed?
I've had sex with quite a few virgins in my day and always the hymen can be felt and it breaks and bleeds.
Or that's the myth. I'm not a medical expert on the vagina but I can tell you there's something that breaks and then there is bleeding when having sex with young virgins.
And no it wasn't rough inexperienced no lube sex either, that wasn't the bleeding.
Put it this way, in my entire life the only girls that bleed when I fuck them were virgins on the 'first time'.
I always use lube if needed.
Apparently even if you got your hymen broken but stopped having sex it can grow back. Never knew that so even if your hymen broke/tore it doesn't prove you weren't previously popped.
Yes, I CAN rule out the possibility that he molested me. He was gone before I was born. I was raised by my mother and grandmother.
Yes, I remember when I lost my virginity. I was 19. No, it didn't bleed. My hymen broke when I was in gymnastics when I was 4. It bled then. But that isn't the point. Lots of girls break their hymen and don't feel it. Some girls don't even have a hymen. And sorry, but it can't possibly "grow back."
I don't need therapy. I like it. Do you need therapy because of what you like?
Is it normal to think of my husband this way?
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or is your refusal to explain it mean that there is no explanation and you really just shouldn't be reading about other people's sex lives.
maybe you should go back to a little nice Christian themed forum where you can talk to dainty nice little people like you.
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Being turned on by the thought of having sex with your own father or son is unnatural. It's different if your thinking about someone your father's age but getting turned on by the thought of your actual father....No that is sick. So I assume something must of happened to both of them as children, something disturbing which would interfer with thier sexuality. Even though she said No, Maybe its a repressed memory and they were actually sexually abused. All I know is that I find it hard to believe that there is no reason for it, that they coincidentally just both naturally have these thoughts. Energy attracts the same type of energy and they both sound a little off....well a lot. Would you feel comfortable knowing that your dad thinks about you when he's having sex. That's not normal, its called incest. But I suppose as long as they don't act on it, it won't hurt anyone but I still think there is an underlying reason.
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He is almost my father's age. But he isn't my actual father. So how is it sick? And no, there was no sexual abuse at all. You may find it hard to believe, but that is the truth. I would know better than anyone, thank you very much. And what do you mean "as long as they don't act on it"? Act on what? Neither of us have thoughts of anyone else.
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Warped. Not normal.
Go to a therapist if you don't believe us.
I've had plenty of girlfriends and never did they pretend I was their father.
They'd probably projectile vomit if I said that to them.
"Gee honey, let's role play and have fun, pretend I'm your father fucking you !"
And you're also thinking about having sex with your son?
"Now pretend I'm your son fucking you!"
El warpo!
You also exhibit signs of being molested where normal sex isn't exciting enough for you and you're escalating the encounters.
Don't let your husband molest your daughter cause that's coming next.
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You are mistaken. Normal sex is plenty exciting for us. We don't do this all the time. No molestation has ever/will ever occur. I've stated that plainly several times.
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Oh, I just re-read :
"Thank you for this. Actually though, my husband is nothing like my father. I was never close with my father; we didn't have much of a relationship at all until I was 20. Maybe that's part of it. "
Ok so maybe that's why you got daddy issues.
Most girls do have daddy issues if he wasn't around when younger but AFAIK they don't fantasize they're fucking him.
Maybe it's your way of dealing with abandonment issues.
You shouldn't rule out the possibility of him molesting you.
Maybe your mom caught him and that's why she got rid of him and he wasn't around.
Your conscious mind forgets/blocks out traumatic experiences but your subconscious mind doesn't forget and it's your subconscious mind that controls things and makes you who you are.
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
Did your hymen 'break' and bleed?
I've had sex with quite a few virgins in my day and always the hymen can be felt and it breaks and bleeds.
Or that's the myth. I'm not a medical expert on the vagina but I can tell you there's something that breaks and then there is bleeding when having sex with young virgins.
And no it wasn't rough inexperienced no lube sex either, that wasn't the bleeding.
Put it this way, in my entire life the only girls that bleed when I fuck them were virgins on the 'first time'.
I always use lube if needed.
Apparently even if you got your hymen broken but stopped having sex it can grow back. Never knew that so even if your hymen broke/tore it doesn't prove you weren't previously popped.
There's always hypno-therapy.
Still not normal.
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Yes, I CAN rule out the possibility that he molested me. He was gone before I was born. I was raised by my mother and grandmother.
Yes, I remember when I lost my virginity. I was 19. No, it didn't bleed. My hymen broke when I was in gymnastics when I was 4. It bled then. But that isn't the point. Lots of girls break their hymen and don't feel it. Some girls don't even have a hymen. And sorry, but it can't possibly "grow back."
I don't need therapy. I like it. Do you need therapy because of what you like?