Is it normal to think of my husband this way?

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  • Nope. No sexual abuse on either side. What exactly do you find disgusting about it?

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    • I don't mean to be mean. But come on!!! What part of it, isn't disgusting? If you have to ask "why?" then you probably wouldn't understand if I explained it.

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      • or is your refusal to explain it mean that there is no explanation and you really just shouldn't be reading about other people's sex lives.

        maybe you should go back to a little nice Christian themed forum where you can talk to dainty nice little people like you.

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        • Being turned on by the thought of having sex with your own father or son is unnatural. It's different if your thinking about someone your father's age but getting turned on by the thought of your actual father....No that is sick. So I assume something must of happened to both of them as children, something disturbing which would interfer with thier sexuality. Even though she said No, Maybe its a repressed memory and they were actually sexually abused. All I know is that I find it hard to believe that there is no reason for it, that they coincidentally just both naturally have these thoughts. Energy attracts the same type of energy and they both sound a little off....well a lot. Would you feel comfortable knowing that your dad thinks about you when he's having sex. That's not normal, its called incest. But I suppose as long as they don't act on it, it won't hurt anyone but I still think there is an underlying reason.

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          • He is almost my father's age. But he isn't my actual father. So how is it sick? And no, there was no sexual abuse at all. You may find it hard to believe, but that is the truth. I would know better than anyone, thank you very much. And what do you mean "as long as they don't act on it"? Act on what? Neither of us have thoughts of anyone else.

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            • Warped. Not normal.

              Go to a therapist if you don't believe us.

              I've had plenty of girlfriends and never did they pretend I was their father.

              They'd probably projectile vomit if I said that to them.

              "Gee honey, let's role play and have fun, pretend I'm your father fucking you !"

              And you're also thinking about having sex with your son?

              "Now pretend I'm your son fucking you!"

              El warpo!

              You also exhibit signs of being molested where normal sex isn't exciting enough for you and you're escalating the encounters.

              Don't let your husband molest your daughter cause that's coming next.

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              • You are mistaken. Normal sex is plenty exciting for us. We don't do this all the time. No molestation has ever/will ever occur. I've stated that plainly several times.

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