age play? I thought it would have more to do with incest.
our true first romantic loves come from our parents. and I mean sexually. this was Freud's theory. not to mention they always say that girls look for the same traits in men that they see in their fathers.
must work the same for guys too there is a saying "you'll marry your mother" or something like that.
not to mention my girlfriend does have a LOT in common with my mother. it actually creeps me out a little bit.
Thank you for this. Actually though, my husband is nothing like my father. I was never close with my father; we didn't have much of a relationship at all until I was 20. Maybe that's part of it. Maybe I missed out on a lot growing up. But my husband is such a great father, maybe I do wish I had someone like him to take care of me growing up.
This is an intelligent observation that applies to the questioner.
I'd expand it say that these fantasies are common, if not normative, and completely harmless and understandable.
Have fun.
well what is "normal" is completely subjective. my argument would be that there is no difference between normal and common.
people don't want to admit these thoughts. but they're not caused by some sort of abnormality, or strange alternative lifestyle. so yes to me they are nothing less than run of the mill horny people's thoughts.
what am I in some sort of university debate? I pulled it out of my ass it's hearsay do you want me to wander around with a fucking book of sources on how I learned every fucking piece of information?
why don't you go look for it yourself you lazy bastard because I have absolutely NO need to justify myself to someone who would rather just contradict me instead of actually come up with an argument.
Is it normal to think of my husband this way?
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age play? I thought it would have more to do with incest.
our true first romantic loves come from our parents. and I mean sexually. this was Freud's theory. not to mention they always say that girls look for the same traits in men that they see in their fathers.
must work the same for guys too there is a saying "you'll marry your mother" or something like that.
not to mention my girlfriend does have a LOT in common with my mother. it actually creeps me out a little bit.
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Thank you for this. Actually though, my husband is nothing like my father. I was never close with my father; we didn't have much of a relationship at all until I was 20. Maybe that's part of it. Maybe I missed out on a lot growing up. But my husband is such a great father, maybe I do wish I had someone like him to take care of me growing up.
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that's so sad... I can see why that would be an even more attractive trait to you. I hope I can be a good father too one day.
This is an intelligent observation that applies to the questioner.
I'd expand it say that these fantasies are common, if not normative, and completely harmless and understandable.
Have fun.
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well what is "normal" is completely subjective. my argument would be that there is no difference between normal and common.
people don't want to admit these thoughts. but they're not caused by some sort of abnormality, or strange alternative lifestyle. so yes to me they are nothing less than run of the mill horny people's thoughts.
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100% agree with you.
Could you please let me know the title of the book where freud states that our first true romantic love come from our parents.
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what am I in some sort of university debate? I pulled it out of my ass it's hearsay do you want me to wander around with a fucking book of sources on how I learned every fucking piece of information?
why don't you go look for it yourself you lazy bastard because I have absolutely NO need to justify myself to someone who would rather just contradict me instead of actually come up with an argument.
asshole.
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Thank you so much for your guidance. Although I was not trying to contradict you.