Is it normal to think my teacher is my mom.

My teacher and I are super close. We talk about EVERYTHING.....She checks in with me everyday, we talk all the time. I tell her about my life at home and she actually sat with me for almost 1 hour to calm me down. I have heard her talk about me to the another teacher. She really cares. I feel like she cares even more than my mom. We loom alike, act alike, and even my sister said I was probably adopted, or switched at birth.....is this normal ?

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64% Normal
Based on 55 votes (35 yes)
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  • skittles13

    I think u feel this way because she cares and u wish ur mom would treat u like this too

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

    My gym teacher she watches big bang thoery with me, she has been to my apartment and we text eachouther and she's like 40-50

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  • MnM13

    Okay. Well I send out my best of wishes to u (:

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  • MountainsBeyondMountains

    I answered yes, but let me qualify that: it's normal to have a parent-child relationship with a teacher and really connect with them. If you literally believe she might somehow secretly be your mom though, than that is kind of odd.

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  • moo_moo

    They just let me, because I am exactly like her.

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  • MnM13

    It's good u have a friend u can talk to as well as a trusted adult. I would say this is normal as long as u are not obsessing over it.

    What do your friends think of you thinking your teacher is your mom? Or do they know?

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  • moo_moo

    Alv1579: (: okay. Thank you
    Skittles: some of the things it is better to talk to an adult about or I just feel like I need to tell her in stead of my friends. But my best friend of 7 years knows everything also.

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  • alv1592

    Normal. Your teacher sounds very nice. :)

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  • MnM13

    Hi this is skittles13 I forgot my password to that one after I signed out DX

    But anyway, so when u say "yah, sometimes" does that mean u tell ur teacher more than u do ur friends? And how many friends do u tell ur secrets too that u are telling your teacher? Do u have some friends u tell the same amount of stuff to?

    It's not always a good idea to tell a lot of people because there is a higher chance of your secrets getting out but if u trust them that's okay.

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  • moo_moo

    Yah they listen well. And yah. Sometimes. It depends on what we are talking about. I started talking to her by just saying "hi"

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  • skittles13

    It's good u have friends to talk to especially if they listen good.

    Do ur friends listen to u well? Sometimes when u don't have friends u can trust u will go to someone u know u can trust and for u that is ur teacher.

    What started your teacher and Urs talks? Do u tell her more than u do ur friends?

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  • moo_moo

    Last year.
    Yeah I have friends I can talk to.
    We usually talk about life. About how I am and how I'm doing.

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  • skittles13

    How long have u thought of her this way? What do u guys usually talk about? If u talk to ur mom more u might see she is there to listen to but u haven't said anything to her. Do u have friends u can talk to?

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  • moo_moo

    Today we talked(my teacher and I) and she like honestly cares. Its crazy. She told me that everything would be okay and to check In with her between my classes. We are A LOT alike though. Even kids confuse us at my school(from the back or side)

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  • Me and my teacher are very close too. What you described about her relates to me and it is normal to be that close bit I don't think it's normal that you feel like she is your mom. Ask your parents

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