Is it normal to think my boyfriend is cheating sometimes?

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 2 years. we have been through EVERYTHING. i have cheated before. we live about 35 mins away from eachother but we see eachother a pretty good amount. ever since somethings have happend with his dad.... we never talk on the phone. we almost never text. and his phone is almost never on. i trust him with everything and i dont think hes cheating on me... i hope hes not. we broke up for a little bit over the summer because we didnt talk alot and he told me that he changed. now, hes acting like he did before we dated. he said he wants to change. but idk what hes trying to do. idk if he wants to break up or not.... im so confused.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Uhh. First of all, your man is one of the rare to take you back after you cheated. Can't say he won't but, if you guys have broken up before and you don't talk or text that's not good. Sounds like you two need to move on to other people entirely.

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    • tootsiepopper
      13 years ago

      we do talk. weve been talkin a lot more then what we used to.

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  • gako
    13 years ago

    CHEATER!!

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    he even know you cheated? I hope he is cheating on you at least.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    What's difficult about this?? Either you find out whether he's trustworthy, or end the relationship! Begin by asking what he's up to (actually, first ask yourself why you think he's cheating -- are you just making crap up because you're insecure?). Ask him why's he's acting the way he's acting, but first ask yourself whether you're not reading your own insecurities into the situation.

    Why do women persistently stick around in crappy relationships? Is this a form of punishment? Are you needy? You're right, if things are off, things will change over time...for the WORSE! Snap the hell out of your boolsheet, woman!

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  • Timbuck55
    13 years ago

    I can speak for myself and myself only.. If a woman cheated on me Id be out the door. Only reason to stay with a woman who cheated on me is to cause her as much pain as you caused him(if any)...And to cheat on you with anything that walks and hope you find out.. With that being said, I'm not that vindictive and more mature so Id just move on, but in my younger days I did do something along those lines after being cheated on by a girl. It was my mission to sleep with everyone of her friends..I knocked out a decent amount.

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  • bear312
    13 years ago

    i think yall should take a break for sa while

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  • kaoginda
    13 years ago

    You should always have your guard up no matter what. Don't ever fully trust a person on being "committed" to you, unless they've never done anything to lose your trust. But IMO I think you should give your relationship some time. Maybe it's best of you two go your own way.

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  • a_blonde_paradox
    13 years ago

    For him to take you back after you cheated on him is rare. I would have told your ass to go off yourself, personally. And for you to think that he's cheating on you is just an insecurity on your part. Perhaps you being the cheater has made you think he is doing the same. Why be in a relationship with someone you have doubts with and hardly every talk to?

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    well it sounds like to me that neither of you are ready for a relationship for you to cheat on him and for him to be avoiding you all together. you are very lucky that he took you back after you cheated.
    also, what happened with his dad? because if his dad is very unwell then it would be understandable that he is focusing all of his energy on his dad.
    maybe tell him that you should take a break and when things get better with his dad then maybe see if you can try again but i wouldnt count on it.

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