I think, in general, most men aren't so specific, so narrow and so superficial that they only have a single preference. Personally, I've been attracted to all kinds of girls all kinds of shapes and sizes. I might have a leaning towards one or the other, but ultimately my situation and my emotion tends to dictate who I'm attracted to.
Curvy, not-so-curvy, that doesn't really matter. Muscle definition can be a little off-putting to some guys, I think because there is a traditional association of defined muscles denoting masculinity. But to others it's hot for a women to be athletic, fit and healthy. Lots of guys aren't bothered about small boobs (despite what girls assume), lots of guys aren't bothered about broad 'child-bearing' hips, lots of guys aren't bothered about the size of a girl's butt.
"but I never get told i'm hot or sexy and no guys seem to be going crazy over my body?" You expect just ordinary guys to be going crazy over your body? Perhaps your expectations are set a little high. I don't expect random girls to be going crazy over my body or telling me I'm hot and sexy in casual conversation. It doesn't mean I think my body is ugly or unattractive because of it.
I hope you overcome your insecurities because they aren't warranted.
Is it normal to think men don't like skinny women
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Oh I don't know.
I think, in general, most men aren't so specific, so narrow and so superficial that they only have a single preference. Personally, I've been attracted to all kinds of girls all kinds of shapes and sizes. I might have a leaning towards one or the other, but ultimately my situation and my emotion tends to dictate who I'm attracted to.
Curvy, not-so-curvy, that doesn't really matter. Muscle definition can be a little off-putting to some guys, I think because there is a traditional association of defined muscles denoting masculinity. But to others it's hot for a women to be athletic, fit and healthy. Lots of guys aren't bothered about small boobs (despite what girls assume), lots of guys aren't bothered about broad 'child-bearing' hips, lots of guys aren't bothered about the size of a girl's butt.
"but I never get told i'm hot or sexy and no guys seem to be going crazy over my body?" You expect just ordinary guys to be going crazy over your body? Perhaps your expectations are set a little high. I don't expect random girls to be going crazy over my body or telling me I'm hot and sexy in casual conversation. It doesn't mean I think my body is ugly or unattractive because of it.
I hope you overcome your insecurities because they aren't warranted.