Is it normal to think like this?

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I'm a male who has been struggling with a problem since I was 15, though I never act out what I'm thinking. Everytime I get into an agreement with my mother, 3 sisters, female friends and family members it gets me so angry that I want to take it out on another female. I'm talking bad, vile, horrible, unholy thoughts. I feel like I want to do something that I know is bad (I don't even like to say the word. But you can guess where I'm going with this). And the other day I got into an argument with my girlfriend because of stupid bullshit she got mad because I forgot to pay my phone bill and it got turned off. I left my wallet at the house so when I got home she started to trip. She thought I did it on propose because we we were supposed to meet up for lunch with the in laws. We don't get along very well. I couldn't call her to tell her I couldn't make it cause on my lunch break I realized my phone was off. So I went home instead to grab the wallet and handle my business. I called her after I paid the bill and she this and that. Nonsense she spreads as usual. Fast forward to home she called me a piece of shit. I left the house to walk around the block to cool down then I saw my neighbor. Those thoughts came to mind again and I couldn't even live with myself if I did what I was thinking. I want to seek counseling for my thoughts of doing these things to women I know or don't know everytime I get mad at women in my life, even the men sometimes too but I don't want to be perceived as the bad guy. Is it normal to have these feelings and if so what do you do to stop them so I won't never act on them? I couldn't live with myself if I did. I'm 28 now.

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18% Normal
Based on 45 votes (8 yes)
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  • Ms.Dempsy
    8 years ago

    I have no idea if it's normal or not but I'm leaning toward no.Don't do it. Rape is never okay. You want to hurt a female just cause yo ass get butthurt in an argument. Have you ever consider how the girl will feel? Your pathetic. Its not your place to decide for the female to be your sex slave or whatever just because you had a bad day.Try smoking weed instead. I find that calming. Or better yet crawl under a rock and die. Your girlfriend is right you are a piece of shit.

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    • Myghoul2099
      8 years ago

      'yo ass.

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      • Ms.Dempsy
        8 years ago

        I have a little ass. That sucks cause I'm black and white. Look like a white girl. My skin in literally yellow. I thought being half and half I should have a big donk. The only thing I got is red nappy nigger hair :-(
        #The struggle is real
        #Light bright and two shades from being white

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I hate to admit it but your right, I want to force myself on top of a girl when get mad at my girlfriend or whatever woman in my life. God help my soul but even as young as a five year old I would fuck if she was available . I want to stop these thoughts but I have no idea why. And I'm one of the nicest people out here in this world. I've been dealing with this for over ten years and everytime the thought get more and more intense and life-like. Please help. Couciling is not an option.

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      • wigz
        8 years ago

        Why is counselling not an option?

        You've described a very serious problem but first of all, let me say that you've taken a huge first step in recognizing this issue and asking for help. Lots of people struggling like you don't have the courage or good sense to do what you've done so far.

        You really do need to get counselling here, I don't know what else to even suggest that would be adequate. There's books and online forums, possibly group meetings for anger management depending on what your area offers. But you probably NEED therapy before you hurt someone and throw your life away.

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      • Ms.Dempsy
        8 years ago

        Oh my. You get it bad. You need to get help like yesterday. A five year old. I pray for you tonight. If I could down vote you I will unfortunately I don't know how so yeah. But please don't do anything. Maybe you should check yourself in a insane asylum. Don't rape no body.

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    Did you write this right after a fight? You must be pissed. If you feel like this all the time you know you need some swift intervention of some kind before you beat that frustration straight into a correctional facility. Seek a healthy outlet.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    You need to do something about dealing with your anger in a constructive way rather than thinking of taking it out on any female who's unfortunate to be anywhere near you when you're angry with someone else.

    PLEASE get some therapy before you do something you'll regret or find an Anger Management group.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You get angry when you get in an 'agreement with my mother, 3 sisters, female friends and family members'? Really?
    You must have a really shitty home life.

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    • Ms.Dempsy
      8 years ago

      I think your missing the point grandpa.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Oh please enlighten me. What exactly is the point of getting angry with someone who agrees with you?
        Again, please enlighten me. And it's you're not your, dearie.

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        • wigz
          8 years ago

          And here we have a total dumbass trying to play dumb. Priceless.

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          He means argument, not agreement, just as propose should be purpose

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        • Ms.Dempsy
          8 years ago

          Hes askin iF it iz normal too had thoughts t0 RAPE femail win he mhad at females. Not you're opinion on his homme lyfe.

          You don't always have to a prick. I'm on your side remember #TEAMGYPSY lighten up a little bit

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      A few typos. My fault. How do you suggest I deal with this problem?

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  • Brad.sholl
    8 years ago

    It's normal for you to get in a fight with your gf and then make her pay for being a little bitch by taking your rage out on her and showing her whose boss. Not to other , random women though. BTW, by taking out your rage I mean fuck her senseless, don't beat her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I know. That is exactly what I'm talking about. Both.

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  • Sally_Sally
    8 years ago

    I personally believe you are headed down a road to a bad place. Your thoughts are not ok..... anytime you hurt someone, that is never good. It doesn't matter what they do, or why...... especially if it's a female. If you don't talk to someone about this, you'll end up seriously hurting someone you love or care for, and you'll end up spending time in prison being Bubba's girlfriend.

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  • nopetothedope
    8 years ago

    Talk to a therapist they have to keep the secret between you and them so don't worry about others thinking you are a bad person. It sounds like this urge is hard to deal with, this WILL ruin your life if you don't get help (i.e. therapist).

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