Is it normal to think like this?

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is it normal to feel bad about how many guys iv slept with.I mean ,my whole life iv just wanted someone to like me even when i was fifteen guys would never want anything serious or even a realtionship,so when i did find a guy who wanted me id always find a reason to dislike him.Then i came to college and my whole world opened up to an endless supply of one night flings and hey once protected ,these are considered to be the norm.Im sick of it thougyh at this stage its boring,cheap,and now I feel like its too late for me to ever find a guy who wont dump me because of my slutting around in college.Is this normal ?

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago | pl

    Yes, and you have to live with it now! But you have become a bit wise after all that.

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago | pl

    What is wrong with having slept with many people? Why feel bad about it?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    It is a total waste of time and energy for you to feel this way, or even think about your past negatively.
    You have probably a much more healthy attitude towards sex than some prudish virgin or near virgin of your age and you certainly should be a much better lover.
    When you do find that guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, you will have the ability to please him sexually and not be some hung up, up tight, puritanical misfit unable to enjoy your physical lives together.

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  • Redcoats
    8 years ago | pl

    A true man won't care about your body count and love you for you (:

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  • sexybrownmanrickbaca
    7 years ago | pl

    Its better to be a slut and fuck as many guys as you want...if i was a girl thats what I would do..i would rather be a slut that let any guy fuck me than a girl who cant get laid. ..BEING A SLUT IS CLASSY TO ME

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  • LuxM4G
    8 years ago | pl

    You will fall for someone and build a stable relationship eventually. You should make the best of the experience you got, it's nothing to be ashamed.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago | pl

    My body count is unusually low, and I am embarrassed by it. But, I think that unless you have been abused, learning sensitivity and intimacy can be done regardless of your body count.

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    • slings_and_arrows
      8 years ago | pl

      You know a lot of women would see that as a good thing. I haven't really met anyone who wants a guy whose been around, thought that's probably coz I don't associate with skanky bitch types. I wouldn't think anyone would learn sensitivity and intimacy with loads of flings and one night stands, I would think the opposite. If someone has had a few meaningful relationships then that sounds more like someone who would be sensitive and intimate.

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  • JD777
    8 years ago | pl

    Lots of people go through a promiscuous stage and stop it. Just try to keep a new guy from meeting 19 guys you've slept with, and don't communicate with any previous flames if you're dating someone. No need to tell him the extent of your past.

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