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I'm an open person,I Express my feeling freely,forgive others and give my trust to others easily and follow my feelings.
But sometimes I feel upset when I see everyone who I trusted,betrayed me and overused my weakness points.
Sometimes I really feel like stone
I decided to Change the way of my life and not to be a sentimental person anymore.
Is it normal to think like this?
You have to find a balance. I felt like a pushover and was very trusting, then became very cold and defensive which just bought unnecessary conflicts into my life. Just start off slow with giving people your trust. If you're cautious about it it doesn't take long to decide if a person can be trusted or should be kept at an emotional arms length. When you feel like you're being used by someone just calmly stop letting them. It usually doesn't work to try putting them in their place.