Is it normal to think like this?

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Every time I feel like my boyfriend is taking me for granted, I automatically want to have sex with a male friend of mine. I know that it's very possible to do because there are plenty of guys trying to get in my pants, which makes things worrying. I love my boyfriend, how can I stop these thoughts? Is it normal to have these thoughts?

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  • IBringIt
    11 years ago | pl

    Having the thoughts is completely normal. Acting on them is something else.

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  • blackmesa
    11 years ago | pl

    If you love your boyfriend, it is not normal. You should reevaluate your relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Sounds as if you invite these men and their supposedly unwanted attention. Do you enjoy being a "closet whore" or are you just in denial so much you have everyone fooled except for yourself?

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  • Geneva5
    11 years ago | pl

    You are a total slut !

    Maybe you should charge for sex ?

    $2 Whore !

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  • blablablah221
    11 years ago | pl

    Boys want to get in your pants, I'M SO VERY SORRY.

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago | pl

    It's called spite. We all have spiteful thoughts once in a while, so it's normal. Just try to breathe through it and not act on your impulses. Remember the consequences and remember how much you love your boyfriend.

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  • China
    11 years ago | pl

    No it's normal when I was with my boyfriend I thought about doing things with other boys all the time in my head whenever he pissed me off, it was my silent way of getting my own back, and from the sounds of it thats what you're doing too.

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  • RinTin
    11 years ago | pl

    It's normal to feel that way just don't act on it. You should talk to your boyfriend about what's bothering you so you guys can fix it.

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  • cammers
    11 years ago | pl

    Kinda normal you feel like your getting revenge because you feel like hes taking you for granted i think if you talk to him and told him how you really feel and yall worked it out i really don't think you would be thinking of even doing that anymore especialy if you really love him.

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