Is it normal to think it's okay for men to take a stance on abortion?

I think a man has some place in whether a woman should have an abortion, if there has been a long standing relationship, and that he put his money where his mouth is. But ultimately, it must be the woman who must choose to carry the child to term; after all, she is the one who has to go through the pregnancy and birth.
I sure as hell wouldn't want to be pregnant, but thankfully, it isn't something I'll ever have to worry about.
Realistically, if the woman is willing to carry the baby to term, but doesn't want to raise it, then the father should have the right to do so, without any further participation from the woman, financially or otherwise.