I doubt it would be "all set up just to hurt you or make you look stupid", but if your not feeling loved in the relationship, it's definitely important to ask why, and identify the problem.
There are two distinctly different possibilities:
The first is that you are irrationally paranoid. You feel insecure, but it's because of your insecure nature, and it probably has more to do with other insecurities in your life than it has to do with the situation with your boyfriend.
The second is that you are quite perceptive, and you notice things in his behaviour which make you concerned. If this is the case, there might be a genuine problem...maybe talk to him about it?
Just be careful not to be TOO paranoid, and read too much into his behaviour...it's a hard one :) ...and you haven%%u2019t really given us enough information to answer it properly...sorry :(
Is it normal to think it's all an act?
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Umm, bit of a worry...
I doubt it would be "all set up just to hurt you or make you look stupid", but if your not feeling loved in the relationship, it's definitely important to ask why, and identify the problem.
There are two distinctly different possibilities:
The first is that you are irrationally paranoid. You feel insecure, but it's because of your insecure nature, and it probably has more to do with other insecurities in your life than it has to do with the situation with your boyfriend.
The second is that you are quite perceptive, and you notice things in his behaviour which make you concerned. If this is the case, there might be a genuine problem...maybe talk to him about it?
Just be careful not to be TOO paranoid, and read too much into his behaviour...it's a hard one :) ...and you haven%%u2019t really given us enough information to answer it properly...sorry :(