Why do virgins like to deify women? I find that personally insulting. Also, why would you even want to be with a woman if you believe she'd be shallow enough to be disgusted by the idea of "lowering" herself to your level based only upon physical attractiveness? If all that mattered was looks, we wouldn't have emotion, and you wouldn't "feel" disgust at yourself in the first place.
You don't think any part of you deserves love? You don't have the human decency to afford yourself admiration? Women are just people. You are EXACTLY on their level. There ARE no levels. Don't let love escape you because you won't allow your self-imposed category to mingle with another one of your self-imposed categories. Are you saying if a woman said she loved you that you'd push her away because she was deluded for not being disgusted by you? That's messed up.
Sex DOES NOT equal love. Sex is only impulsive, so don't apply logic to it. Each emotion runs in a separate trench in your psyche. Your disgust and your lust shouldn't intersect. Have some self-respect and love yourself. Then you'll be able to view women as earthly and men as just as deserving of love. Your sexual frustration has clearly messed with your mind.
When you can see everyone as equal and equally deserving, you'll be able to separate your sex drive from your self worth. I know you don't see it now, but you're a beautiful and amazing being just because you're human. If a world existed where you were the only human, you'd be superior. It's a shame you're wasting your life on self pity when you could be EXACTLY what someone needs right now. You're not saving anyone from yourself right now, you're depriving them of the privilege of getting to know you.
IIN to think I will be a virgin my whole life?
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Why do virgins like to deify women? I find that personally insulting. Also, why would you even want to be with a woman if you believe she'd be shallow enough to be disgusted by the idea of "lowering" herself to your level based only upon physical attractiveness? If all that mattered was looks, we wouldn't have emotion, and you wouldn't "feel" disgust at yourself in the first place.
You don't think any part of you deserves love? You don't have the human decency to afford yourself admiration? Women are just people. You are EXACTLY on their level. There ARE no levels. Don't let love escape you because you won't allow your self-imposed category to mingle with another one of your self-imposed categories. Are you saying if a woman said she loved you that you'd push her away because she was deluded for not being disgusted by you? That's messed up.
Sex DOES NOT equal love. Sex is only impulsive, so don't apply logic to it. Each emotion runs in a separate trench in your psyche. Your disgust and your lust shouldn't intersect. Have some self-respect and love yourself. Then you'll be able to view women as earthly and men as just as deserving of love. Your sexual frustration has clearly messed with your mind.
When you can see everyone as equal and equally deserving, you'll be able to separate your sex drive from your self worth. I know you don't see it now, but you're a beautiful and amazing being just because you're human. If a world existed where you were the only human, you'd be superior. It's a shame you're wasting your life on self pity when you could be EXACTLY what someone needs right now. You're not saving anyone from yourself right now, you're depriving them of the privilege of getting to know you.
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thanks for your nice comment, it gave me a lot to think about.