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I'm wondering how I can make my boyfriend stay faithful?
I have not seen much dishonestly lately but I know for a fact it happened once already. I'm very much in love with him but there is always that thought in the back of my mind. And I hate to feel this way, and I realize I'm not being fair to him either for thinking that way (I guess).
If he felt bad enough about his actions he woud have to show you somehow. it coulda been a moment of weakness and wont ever happen again... but he'd have to feel reallly guilty. Only you can decide if he's worthy of forgiveness and a second chance. But I beleive peope can make a one time mistake, and truy feel so bad they never do it again. Good luck.
If you feel as if you "have" to do something to make him remain faithful, there is definitely some problem there... you don't trust him. Relationships are built upon trust and honesty. If you have neither, it isn't a healthy relationship. If you feel like you have to constantly check up on him to see if he's cheating, there's something wrong. A woman's intuition is (in my opinion) the strongest of all her senses. If you feel that something isn't right, chances are they're not. But sometimes ladies get their intuition and paranoia mixed up.
If you don't trust your boyfriend, and he's cheated on you before and you feel like you have to make him stay faithful (which by the way, is impossible. He'll find a way if he wants to.) then you shouldn't be with him. Simple as that! Relationships are about trust and if you don't have it, it ain't right!