I say this as a virgin, but... What I find hard to understand is calling it rape if two people are already (consensually) in bed naked together. Irrespective of gender.
But what would I know? If I had been sleeping next to the same man for 15 years and didn't want to have sex with him, I wouldn't be happy if he tried to force me.
...and if he tried to force you that would technically be rape. Sex without consent is rape. Doesn't matter if they are laying in bed together or not. Doesn't matter if they are married or not. Marital sex is not a human right. All rape is a crime.
I might be, if the definition of rape were as 'given' for me as it is for you. But I'm not treating its definition as a given. I'm treating it as a question.
There are certain kinds of 'public opinion' that I don't like to accept on blind faith. I want to know what I'm talking about. And as I've already said, I don't know what I'm talking about. So I am left with questions.
You know what? I'm tempted to keep going just to wind you up for kicks and giggles.
I've said my piece. My mind is open on the sticky issue of what can and can't constitute valid consent and it's staying that way until I've had any kind of sexual experience. Accuse me of what you will.
Iin to think gay rape should be punished worse?
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I say this as a virgin, but... What I find hard to understand is calling it rape if two people are already (consensually) in bed naked together. Irrespective of gender.
But what would I know? If I had been sleeping next to the same man for 15 years and didn't want to have sex with him, I wouldn't be happy if he tried to force me.
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...and if he tried to force you that would technically be rape. Sex without consent is rape. Doesn't matter if they are laying in bed together or not. Doesn't matter if they are married or not. Marital sex is not a human right. All rape is a crime.
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That is the law. But if we were to look deeper than that, into all the shades of grey of human experience...?
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There are no shades of grey when it comes to sex without consent or forcing yourself on another person.
Oh my fucking god! Get your rape-defending idiocy off my post!
So basically you don't see why rape is even bad? Hmmm.
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I might be, if the definition of rape were as 'given' for me as it is for you. But I'm not treating its definition as a given. I'm treating it as a question.
There are certain kinds of 'public opinion' that I don't like to accept on blind faith. I want to know what I'm talking about. And as I've already said, I don't know what I'm talking about. So I am left with questions.
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i'M jUst LeFT wiTh QuesTiOns!
No, your being a fucking moron by denying people's right to consent before sexual acts. The more you talk the stupider you sound.
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You know what? I'm tempted to keep going just to wind you up for kicks and giggles.
I've said my piece. My mind is open on the sticky issue of what can and can't constitute valid consent and it's staying that way until I've had any kind of sexual experience. Accuse me of what you will.
Signed,
The virgin girl.