There's this 100 year old man who was asked what is secret was for living such a long healthy life. His answers was plain and simple; "I never argue". The person asking the question was taken aback and said, "This can not be the only reason, it makes no sense." To which he simply responded, "You must be right"
I see what your saying - but I am talking about those people that argue EVERYTHING, even when its just crazy. But you are right, people that dont argue at all are boring, I guess its that balance.....
I get what your saying - but arguing and opinions go hand in hand, unless you have no opinion, like your sister.
Off beat comments are cool, if they are clevar ......
You cant expect people to be totally 'rad' in every situation, there are situations where, unfortunately, dullness (or professionalism) is important.
If your angry with people who are always dull, and have no opinion no matter the situation, I agree and understand.
Most people are afraid to speak their true opinion (on certain topics)usually because one time they did and they were all the sudden turned into a social pariah. Your family was probably more accepting than most. My family basically trained me to be neutral - adaptive. If I met you I would feel comfortable being random and opinionated -
anyway, what Im saying is that it just depends on the situation for me.
I was mearly reflecting on my opinion that I dislike people who always have an argument or opinion for everything just to be different - against the grain - it's just not genuine
IIN to think everyone I know is boring!
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yep - agree - constant arguing is for people that have nothing interesting to talk about
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bof, arguing can pass the time...
There's this 100 year old man who was asked what is secret was for living such a long healthy life. His answers was plain and simple; "I never argue". The person asking the question was taken aback and said, "This can not be the only reason, it makes no sense." To which he simply responded, "You must be right"
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I see what your saying - but I am talking about those people that argue EVERYTHING, even when its just crazy. But you are right, people that dont argue at all are boring, I guess its that balance.....
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Who said anything about arguing anyway? I never did. I was talking about discussions. Opinions. Not conflicts.
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I get what your saying - but arguing and opinions go hand in hand, unless you have no opinion, like your sister.
Off beat comments are cool, if they are clevar ......
You cant expect people to be totally 'rad' in every situation, there are situations where, unfortunately, dullness (or professionalism) is important.
If your angry with people who are always dull, and have no opinion no matter the situation, I agree and understand.
Most people are afraid to speak their true opinion (on certain topics)usually because one time they did and they were all the sudden turned into a social pariah. Your family was probably more accepting than most. My family basically trained me to be neutral - adaptive. If I met you I would feel comfortable being random and opinionated -
anyway, what Im saying is that it just depends on the situation for me.
I was mearly reflecting on my opinion that I dislike people who always have an argument or opinion for everything just to be different - against the grain - it's just not genuine