You’re misunderstanding the definition. Asexuals are not interested in having sex, doesn’t mean they can’t get aroused. They just don’t get aroused by the idea of having sex with people, your vibrator example kinda proves that. just as you’re not aroused by the same sex if you’re straight, or even ugly people. That’s how they feel about everyone.
That is kinda the point. They still have some sexual drive and feelings, they are just to low to amount to outwardly wanting to have sex. But regardless, the idea that people have no sex drive at all or no sexual feelings is BS, and that tends to be what asexual people claim. In my opinion of course!
Interesting question. Like if you use a vibrator to get off, you aren't attracted to a specific gender. I think it would be about what you were thinking about at the time.
You sure it ain't subconsious or something? I am not saying for sure, its just an idea. But when I jack off with no stimuli just to feel good, is it possible in my subconcious I am imagining a woman sucking on or being penetrated by it?
Is it normal to think "asexuality" is totally not a thing?
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You’re misunderstanding the definition. Asexuals are not interested in having sex, doesn’t mean they can’t get aroused. They just don’t get aroused by the idea of having sex with people, your vibrator example kinda proves that. just as you’re not aroused by the same sex if you’re straight, or even ugly people. That’s how they feel about everyone.
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That is kinda the point. They still have some sexual drive and feelings, they are just to low to amount to outwardly wanting to have sex. But regardless, the idea that people have no sex drive at all or no sexual feelings is BS, and that tends to be what asexual people claim. In my opinion of course!
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But if their sexual feelings are not a product of or directed towards either sex, what should they refer to their orientation as?
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Interesting question. Like if you use a vibrator to get off, you aren't attracted to a specific gender. I think it would be about what you were thinking about at the time.
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They aren’t thinking about anything, just enjoying the feeling.
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You sure it ain't subconsious or something? I am not saying for sure, its just an idea. But when I jack off with no stimuli just to feel good, is it possible in my subconcious I am imagining a woman sucking on or being penetrated by it?
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By that logic then it’s just as possible your subconscious is imagining a man sucking or being penetrated by it, making you gay or bi, right?