Is it normal to think about your best friend right after masturbating?

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Just like the question says, is it normal that I think about my male best friend after masturbating? I'm a 19 year old guy. He's been a close friend for a couple of years now, we've pretty much hung out every day since we've met in real life, but we usually play online games together. Lately we've been hanging out less online and once a week we go somewhere. The thoughts usually relate to what we've done when we've hung out or what we're going to do, and they usually come near ejaculation. I've had these thoughts for a few weeks now. I don't believe I'm gay, but some people call me gay for how I present myself and how I talk.

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  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago

    It could be that your mind is just wandering...or it could be that you're lonely and you happen to think about the person that is the closest to you. If you don't find the thoughts of your friend arousing then I think it's just a weird thing that happens but it doesn't mean you're gay. Careful though, if they do it might mean that you're attracted to him despite not being gay or even wanting a relationship with him. It happens.

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Don't listen if other people call you "gay", they mostly don't know what they say.
    It is possible that you are gay or bisexual, though. Ever tried to masturbate to some really gay thoughts? If you enjoy it, that would be a clear sign. ;)

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    • RarityTheOne
      10 years ago

      But the thing is I don't find men attractive at all and I can't imagine being in a relationship with one.

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      • GreyWulfen
        10 years ago

        Then everything is clear, isn't it?

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    So you just think about your day when you jerk off? That's a little boring lol I think because your friend is the most interesting thing that happened in your day, that's what comes to mind. Maybe try to concentrate on something else when you wank??

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  • nkwacky
    10 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being gay dude. I think your story is cute. Ask him out.

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