Is it normal to think about the the guy i lost my virginity to a lot?

Yes, I am a male and many years ago I had almost the same feelings that you described. It is very natural for you to do this. You could simply call it: CARE & CONCERN......You'll be okay!

Similar thing happened to me, only he stopped talking to me and haven't heard from him in months. Asshole even lied about being a virgin too...

I think it’s normal yeah.. I lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and I can’t stop thinking about him or the sex, it was amazing. nothing about it I would change except maybe the guy I had it with, when I woke up the asshole left me a note “sorry shawty you was prob best i had but i ain’t lookin for a relationship, I know if i stay long you’ll catch feelings for me ;)” and I haven’t seen or heard from him since, witch sucks because I would so like to do it again with him.

I think its completely normal, I still catch myself thinking about my first though the timing was wrong and I wasn't ready, but yet I replay the situation time and time again wishing I could change it. Even if sometimes I feel like everything happens for a reason. I did date him and it wasn't a healthy relationship at all and after everything I went threw i still think about where it all started. so yes its ok to think about it just dont let it consume all of your time, life goes on and things get better.

I think about my first all the time and its been about 6 years since then and ive had 3 other partners after. I dated my first for 4 years and it was a horrible relationship and he pressured me to lose my virginity. He was not really a great lover but it was still the best sex i ever had maybe because it was new and very emotional for me. I cant get those same emotions about sex as i had that one time. Plus your hymen only gets broken once lol. I really wish i waited for someone better because i have so much enmity towards him and it sucks to think of him all the time.

I lost my virginity to a guy I met in a club and I think about it all the time and regret it now cos now I'm in my first relationship and trying to find a way to tell him cos I don't know how he would react

When people have sex for the first time, they release a chemical that bonds them with the other person for life. Our bodies were only ment to have sex with one person in life, which is why it is SO important to wait til yur married to get knocked up. If you're not a virgin and your spouse is, there is a very high chance that you could lose your marriage.

In a way, I still love the first guy I had sex with. It's hard to let go of that kind of connection.

Yeah, female brains are set up so that we become emotionally attached to whoever we lose our virginity to. Especially if you were not ready. But this will fade over time...

My gf is a virgin, but I plan to treat her right. So even if it ends in the future hopefully she will remember her first time being worth it.

I had the same thing with my first after we broke up. It's a pretty special experience and the mental attachment was pretty strong for me.

Talk to him and get to know him. Maybe it is the mystery of him, that you think about. Good luck

I hung out with the girl I lost my virginity to last night actually, we got wasted and had a good time but I'd never fuck her again.

I think it's normal. I know this is a bad metaphor but have you seen those suburo car commercials. The saying goes "you never forget your first suburo." Well I guess the same applies to the person you shared that magical moment with. However, I don't think the reason he pops into your mind often is because of love but rather regret. The best advice I can give you is to just remember the good times you had with the boy or maybe make a new memory. Confront him and ask him for a virginity loss do ever. Make the moment right.