Is it normal to think about physically killing him?

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Is it normal to think about physically killing my ex boyfriend?
We went out for over 6 months which really isn't that long but near the end he was about to cheat on me before I caught him.
We've been over now for a few weeks, almost a month, but I still lie in bed at night and think about all the beautiful ways I would love to kill him and his tasty bitch he's probably now with.
My thoughts go into real detail about how I would kill him, how I would dispose of the body, what my alibi would be etc.
So yeah...is this normal?

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  • jimi-the-jive
    12 years ago

    heres how you deal with this, win the break up. dont rush it its not a sprint, but get your self to good place emotionally, (I dont like saying move on but that kind of applies) be the best person you can be and meet some amazing guy whose a million time better than him,

    then months from now when you accidently on purpose bump into your ex with your new boyfriend your phrase is "yeah *insert name here* is amazing, its really scary to think if we were still together I'd never have met him!" BAM you win the break up... maybe mention its best sex you've ever had :-)

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  • lemun
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you have some maturing to do. You need to move on. It's not normal.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    It's normal to be angry. It's one of the stages of dealing with loss. It generally applies to the loss of a loved one, but the loss of a relationship is pretty much the same thing.

    First there is disbelief and the thought that this really can't be happening, then you get anger (which is where you are now), next comes bargaining (where you think you'll be willing to accept his deceit if he promises to change), then you'll be sad about the relationship ending (this is a good stage because you're getting towards the final stage which is acceptance. This is where you start dealing rationally and thinking about getting on with your life.

    I've been on the pathway you're on and I don't envy you. Good luck with it, though. I hope you get to acceptance sooner rather than later.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    prick ^

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago

    GROW UP AND GET OVER IT!!!!!!!!!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Just think, you'd a lucky escape and it's his loss anyway!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I don't think these people realize how much pain you're in. To those that tell you to move on, I commend them. They've probably been in the game so they know how these pigs can be. Now you do too. Treat it as a lesson, and be wary of future jerks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So at the end of the day, you're the one still obsessed about killing him and all. I think you should just move one, get some maturity and forget this idiot. You'll feel better when he's completely out of your life. But you can always warn the girl he's with in the future about his ways. That would be the best thing you could do. (Unless you really want to kill him and end up in jail)

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    Normal for what u went thru

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