Is it normal to think about past hookups?

Is it is normal to think maybe you would be a different person if you didn't have sex with that one person you wished you never had sex with? Do you ever think and regret hooking up with anyone? Stories please.

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Based on 173 votes (150 yes)
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  • brainssexathlete101

    Is it is normal to think maybe you would be a different person if you didn't have sex with that one person you wished you never had sex with? Do you ever think and regret hooking up with anyone?

    It is normal to think about past hookups, but at a certain point it can become unhealthy (Speaking from experience). It is possible that if someone didn't get with someone else, they could be different as a person, but I don't think the difference would be extreme. I think refraining could have a more significant impact on choices and behavior following the get - together; but I think it also can depend on whether the encounter/relationship was a positive or negative one overall.

    I do think about past relationships/hookups and I do regret some, but I realize that I will not waste my time because I can't change the past. What I can change are my actions in the future.

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  • Yeah, I have those regrets. I think regret is actually a blessing in disguise.

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    • how and why do you think that?

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      • Because they help you find clarity and avoid similar problems in the future. It also shows that you repudiate the mistakes of your past, and I don't think enough people do that. It takes humility, and that's becoming a rare virtue.

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        • That's true eh?

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  • Francophile22

    I don't regret the ones I had, only the ones I couldn't somehow swing.

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  • drumandpickchick

    Nast.

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  • fullhouse

    Nope.. No regrets. Every relationship has made me the person I am.

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  • lilfizz

    yes espescially if dat pussy stank

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  • holly123holly

    i have been with alot of guys and i wish i wouldnt of done any of them and saved it for my man now so yea im with ya

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  • LIGHTHOUSE

    It is normal.

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  • Neham

    Ok cuz u were druck and even hapend to me ones.

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  • kimi

    Yes cuz ur last hook ups could have been with ppl u dislike or ppl who got u drunk or who u had no other choice with

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  • thestocker

    i dont have any past hookups because once someone is with me they never get the chance to leave

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    • Francophile22

      So you hiding the bodies in the freezer or in the basement?

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