It most be hard to fear losing your family, especially your mom. Is she just against his race or is it more than that? Did he have a upbringing that your mom thinks will have a bad effect on you(for example: does he think that woman should be home while the men
works?).
If she just has a problem with his race, than I think you should sit her down and explain to her that this doesn't change who you are and your beliefs and future plans. You are simply inlove with a guy who happens to have a diffrent race. That shouldn't change anything between you and your mom.
You also mention "moving forward"
with your bf, what does that mean?
Sex, moving in together and/or getting married? Because if that's
what you mean, I do think your
mom is right(obviosly not about the
race thing!) in a way. You are a
adult in the eye, but besides that you are still a kid..
IIN to think about ending a relationship bc my family don't approve
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It most be hard to fear losing your family, especially your mom. Is she just against his race or is it more than that? Did he have a upbringing that your mom thinks will have a bad effect on you(for example: does he think that woman should be home while the men
works?).
If she just has a problem with his race, than I think you should sit her down and explain to her that this doesn't change who you are and your beliefs and future plans. You are simply inlove with a guy who happens to have a diffrent race. That shouldn't change anything between you and your mom.
You also mention "moving forward"
with your bf, what does that mean?
Sex, moving in together and/or getting married? Because if that's
what you mean, I do think your
mom is right(obviosly not about the
race thing!) in a way. You are a
adult in the eye, but besides that you are still a kid..