One thing you need to be careful of is over analyzing. I just got out of a relationship where she could never, ever, believe I was being real with her. I like to consider myself very similar to what you described..But the real kind, not the fake kind. Not trying to toot my own horn, but just give advice here...
Anyways, my ex would constantly doubt everything about me. Why did he do that? What does that mean? Is he being serious or playing me? Can I trust what he says? etc etc etc ETC!!! It seriously ruined our relationship. I felt taken for granted and had to end it, even though everything else about us was tight.
At some point you have to trust someone, and granted you'd only known him for a week or whatever...but keep in mind there's a chance he is for real and you're just doming yourself out. It can be toxic. Just a warning, because I know where it leads if you never resolve it. Good luck.
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One thing you need to be careful of is over analyzing. I just got out of a relationship where she could never, ever, believe I was being real with her. I like to consider myself very similar to what you described..But the real kind, not the fake kind. Not trying to toot my own horn, but just give advice here...
Anyways, my ex would constantly doubt everything about me. Why did he do that? What does that mean? Is he being serious or playing me? Can I trust what he says? etc etc etc ETC!!! It seriously ruined our relationship. I felt taken for granted and had to end it, even though everything else about us was tight.
At some point you have to trust someone, and granted you'd only known him for a week or whatever...but keep in mind there's a chance he is for real and you're just doming yourself out. It can be toxic. Just a warning, because I know where it leads if you never resolve it. Good luck.