I had to do this two days ago. I went on a date with some guy, he was REALLY into me, but I wasn't into him at all. I simply did not feel attracted to his personality or looks. After the date he texted me, I considered for a second not replying but then I thought how immature that would be. So I called him and told him right away "I am sorry, I had a great time, but there can't be anything between us. I don't like you that way. Don't invite me anywhere again and don't try to get me. It won't happen. I hope you can understand". His reply was surprisingly friendly and understanding. He wasn't mad or anything, he was just surprised and a little sad. Being direct is always the best policy, playing games is for high school.
Is it normal to tell someone that you aren't interested in them?
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I had to do this two days ago. I went on a date with some guy, he was REALLY into me, but I wasn't into him at all. I simply did not feel attracted to his personality or looks. After the date he texted me, I considered for a second not replying but then I thought how immature that would be. So I called him and told him right away "I am sorry, I had a great time, but there can't be anything between us. I don't like you that way. Don't invite me anywhere again and don't try to get me. It won't happen. I hope you can understand". His reply was surprisingly friendly and understanding. He wasn't mad or anything, he was just surprised and a little sad. Being direct is always the best policy, playing games is for high school.