Is it normal to tell someone on the first date that I have herpes?

I can't sleep, I have to get up to work in a few hours anyway, I own my business, car and home..I face my greatest challenge, my health. He knew something was wrong with my heart and is very familiar with medicine.Yet he's never asked me how I'm feeling.I work some 16 hr days killing myself to get to a financial comfort zone... Last summer I was lifting weights , playing great tennis and running... I will do it again and be that example for the girls who work for me and look up to me..Can you tell that I'm use to pain? Been in and out of hospitals all my life...tired of it... You wouldn't know it to look at me, no one does...I am becoming bolder and more self aware and hopefully I can spread some sunshine one day instead of praying for it..We are after all masters of our destiny and now more than ever is my time to create and focus on a future without a companion. thank you for taking the time to read and write to me. It's nice to know there is hope of one who has depth and caring