You have every right to put a limit to your friends coming over or in your situations, limits period. It's pretty rude to just show up at someone's door without even calling/asking, even more appalling for them to just waltz on in through said door and act like your house is theirs (who goes around a friend’s house messing with all their stuff and whining about it anyway?). Sorry if this all sounds harsh, I’m sure your friends are fun but I really think you need to demand more respect. Don't feel bad for putting your foot down. If your friends are legit they'll accept what you have to say, after all you pay the bills there and shut the lights out! You have a right for your space and good friends understand that.
Is it normal to tell my friends to limit how much they come over...
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You have every right to put a limit to your friends coming over or in your situations, limits period. It's pretty rude to just show up at someone's door without even calling/asking, even more appalling for them to just waltz on in through said door and act like your house is theirs (who goes around a friend’s house messing with all their stuff and whining about it anyway?). Sorry if this all sounds harsh, I’m sure your friends are fun but I really think you need to demand more respect. Don't feel bad for putting your foot down. If your friends are legit they'll accept what you have to say, after all you pay the bills there and shut the lights out! You have a right for your space and good friends understand that.