This is normal, questions about gender are common in teens, due to a lot of hormones flying around. Although many don't admit it, a lot of people have at least fleeting thoughts of what it would be like to be the opposite sex.
But anyways, about the feeling uncomfortable with your chest, have you considered wearing sportsbras? Or even investing in a binder? (it's like a shirt that is made to compress the chest so it looks more male, for those who don't know) hell, even get a boys hair cut, in this day and age it's a lot more acceptable to see people not appear as 100% male or 100% female.
I wouldn't worry too much, unless you feel real distress and discomfort that gets to the point that you can't even function because of how your body is, then there is no real worry about how you feel :)
Thank you, I have been wearing a sports bra, and my hair has been very short, but I have promised certain people to at least try and have it long for a while... Anyways, I do feel a little distressed and depressed because of this matter but at the same time I don't want to be fully male. It's just as if I am feeling really indecisive and it's killing my motivation. However, I think it will all go well, I am not to negative about this, it's just a bit frustrating.
Is it normal to switch from feeling male to feeling female?
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This is normal, questions about gender are common in teens, due to a lot of hormones flying around. Although many don't admit it, a lot of people have at least fleeting thoughts of what it would be like to be the opposite sex.
But anyways, about the feeling uncomfortable with your chest, have you considered wearing sportsbras? Or even investing in a binder? (it's like a shirt that is made to compress the chest so it looks more male, for those who don't know) hell, even get a boys hair cut, in this day and age it's a lot more acceptable to see people not appear as 100% male or 100% female.
I wouldn't worry too much, unless you feel real distress and discomfort that gets to the point that you can't even function because of how your body is, then there is no real worry about how you feel :)
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Thank you, I have been wearing a sports bra, and my hair has been very short, but I have promised certain people to at least try and have it long for a while... Anyways, I do feel a little distressed and depressed because of this matter but at the same time I don't want to be fully male. It's just as if I am feeling really indecisive and it's killing my motivation. However, I think it will all go well, I am not to negative about this, it's just a bit frustrating.