I think it's got something to do with social phobia as well, I have extreme social anxiety and can't keep friends I can't hold a conversation with people I've come to know for example I can hold a conversation with a complete stranger and be completely normal no problem but if I.have to carry out on going friendships with those people/person then I have difficulties. In my head I convince myself that I'm annoying the person and I won't even text them to just talk or hang or whatever because I wanna be cool not that chick you befriended that keeps texting you, I get carried away with not keeping in touch the person will then think I don't give a crap when in actual fact I do, they move on & I get more and more attached, it's exhausting.
Ummm maybe you'll feel less like a drag if you invite many people at the same time.What I mean is that you find an evwnt or something to do and event people you know may have interest in that and invite them( makes sure they are compatible you don't want to b the one who has ro talk to everyone) . When you keep it like that you keep in touch and at the same time its not seen as I absolutly want to hang out with each of you individually!
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I think it's got something to do with social phobia as well, I have extreme social anxiety and can't keep friends I can't hold a conversation with people I've come to know for example I can hold a conversation with a complete stranger and be completely normal no problem but if I.have to carry out on going friendships with those people/person then I have difficulties. In my head I convince myself that I'm annoying the person and I won't even text them to just talk or hang or whatever because I wanna be cool not that chick you befriended that keeps texting you, I get carried away with not keeping in touch the person will then think I don't give a crap when in actual fact I do, they move on & I get more and more attached, it's exhausting.
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Ummm maybe you'll feel less like a drag if you invite many people at the same time.What I mean is that you find an evwnt or something to do and event people you know may have interest in that and invite them( makes sure they are compatible you don't want to b the one who has ro talk to everyone) . When you keep it like that you keep in touch and at the same time its not seen as I absolutly want to hang out with each of you individually!