You need to tell your husband that his moaning is depressing you and see if he can change. You are maybe both in a rut.
However, if you do believe in the sanctity of marriage I don't think you should consider leaving your husband, with the belief that this other man is your 'knight in shining armour' sent to rescue you. He may only be attracted to you coz you are 'safely married' so he can flirt with no pressure.
You would need to know your marriage is truly over, then you need to spend some time on your own - to learn what you do want from a relationship, then hopefully you would mean someone.
It's often hard to break a habit and want to be financially worse off :o(
Is it normal to struggle with staying with or leaving your husband
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You need to tell your husband that his moaning is depressing you and see if he can change. You are maybe both in a rut.
However, if you do believe in the sanctity of marriage I don't think you should consider leaving your husband, with the belief that this other man is your 'knight in shining armour' sent to rescue you. He may only be attracted to you coz you are 'safely married' so he can flirt with no pressure.
You would need to know your marriage is truly over, then you need to spend some time on your own - to learn what you do want from a relationship, then hopefully you would mean someone.
It's often hard to break a habit and want to be financially worse off :o(
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There is no "sanctity of marriage". Merely unhappiness.
People overrate marriage nowadays.
The only question here is, are you happy?
If you're not, it's not worth it.