Is it normal to "stretch" the truth?

Maybe if my boyfriend wasn't so hot or "active" when he is single...I wouldn't have done this, but I got into his myspace account with his email password, which is the same. I began this like...6 months ago, and every now and then I'll find a girl he talked to when he was single that's like "hey, how have you been" but he hasn't logged on since October because "he's not single". On one occasion, I told him I added two girls from his space to mine (both exes he talked to before I came into the picture) and he got furious with me and asked me what made me want to do that. I just told him that "i got deep into research". I didn't tell him that I've been through his myspace...erased e-mails...discovered sh*t about his timing with me. Should I tell him that "Yes, I went into your myspace" or leave it as "I got deep into my research"? He hasn't check it since October, but he might one day...and notice all the deleting I did out of anger and denial haha.

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  • Really? So your basicly...ILLEGALLY breaking into HIS myspace and ILLEGALLY
    using HIS name to tell other women to fuck of? DAAAAAAMN thats gonna be a pain in the ass.

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  • Well if that's not true love, what is?!!

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  • I did :) It got WAY worse. I'm in a better place now... oh yeah and I eventually hacked his myspace, which he didn't use because of internet accessible reasons, told two girls to f off...hmm.. Yeah, he'll always be a lady's man...not a one-woman-man, although I'm sure he'll go through relationship after relationship trying to find someone who he can look up to. I bet she'll be a better manipulator than him.

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  • I did the same thing with a boyfriend a while back. I kind of felt like a creep, ok i felt really bad for going through his stuff, but he TOLD me his e-mail/myspace passwords. There was a lot of similar stuff to what you described. You should probably dump this guy. He is obviously going to be pursuing other girls when you aren't looking. Don't trust a guy that has already cheated or tried to, no matter what he says.

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  • Okay after reading what you added he is a douche. It's not right to go into his account and delete things, but sounds like he still thinks like a single guy. That's not right either. If he does all that and puts you down dump him

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  • I do it all the time

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  • ummm ya it is normal. my x fiance was talking to some whore in florida he use to know or be friends with. i guess anyways she emailed him on his myspace and told him via email basically that she didn't give a fkn rat's ass that he was married to me. and she still will and wanted to fuck him. i logged on deleted her and blocked that bitch from his myspace. why don't you delete his account altogether just like i did? and you have to know his yahoo or aol or what ever email account he has so you can log onto it right away to activate the deletion of his myspace profile.
    All that myspace does is create drama. i deleted my account as well. because he was the same way to me checkin my emails and shit so i had to change all my passowrds for everything. just be careful with what you do. i think if your bf,husband or fiance or whomever you are with, if that person truly loves you and respects what you two have-he wouldn't give a shit about you adding,deleting any of his gfs from his page. clearly he still wants to be a bachelor. sry to breakit to you. but if he hasn't logged on his profile-delete it. he won't know it was you. someone could have hacked into it right? so play it cool.

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  • Well, I knew, for a fact, he was actively talking with one of his exes and a girl he had a crush on in highschool.... and I've looked over his shoulder before and vocalized that what he was telling these girls "I still love you... or you're the hottest girl in ___ state" and he said he stopped. I guess that's why everything started. That, and he puts me down all the time. So, even though that's no excuse, I know! I did it out of maliciousness and simply not knowing..and wanting to know. He stretches the truth so that I don't know what is really going on... and I found a lot of things I will keep to myself for...forever.

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