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from about two years now , i loved someone , i adore him, really he is my soul. BUT he is married. He loved me and promised to marry but he has alot of problems with the wife and begins to hate his life and feel afraid from marriage. This is reasonable but what about me! I love him very much can't think of somebody else!!!!!!!! What can i do?
Don't be the "Other" woman, you will never been able to replace his wife, if he married her out of true love. You're just giving him what he wants, so why should he change?
If his love for you is real, then he'd leave her. But I'd be a little careful about someone like that, in the future you risk becoming the next wife that gets cheated on.
I know nothing about you, but I'll guess that you could be a good catch, so give your heart to a man who deserves you and will treat you well.
I agree with the thoughtful response above and would add something you said: "what about me!"
What about you indeed because you are getting the short end of the stick. He has his marriage. You have nothing. You have a lot of reasons to let this go for your own sake.
One more thing: watch what you wish for, you just might get it. What kind of man proposes marriage to another woman while already married? Is this really the kind of man you want?
So let it go - and being a bit more honest to yourself about the nature of this relationship in its entirety will make doing that easier.
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I guess that is why they call situations such as yours, "star-crossed lovers." The stars were not right for you and he to be, no matter how perfect your love for each other was. How very bitter-sweet. Sweet that you had the chance to know him and share a love with him....bitter because it could not be. What a sad love story. The only hope I can give is that losing someone you adore through the way you did must be kind of like going through the death of someone that you loved. You have to get through the mourning period. And you will. But it will take time. I wish you peace.
don't get involved with married men. he sleeps with her- his wife and if he truely loved you he'd be sleeping with you every night. it's harsh but true.if you two got together then started having problems knowing he's a kind of person who'd have affairs could you trust him?
TRY ADORING YOURSELF...FIND A MAN WHO WILL ADORE YOU AS MUCH AS YOU ADORE HIM...STOP LETTING THIS DUDE HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TO..ONE MISTAKE US AS PPL DO IS WE SETTLE BECAUSE WE THINK WE ARE NOT WORTHY OF TRUE HAPPINESS.DROP HIM AND MOVE ON TO BETTER THINGS.AND LET THIS WOMAN HAVE HER HUSBAND.YOU WILL NEVER HAVE ANY LUCK SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN....