Time does not heal anything. In time you can learn to live with it and move beyond it BUT you haven't moved on at all - you are living the same moment you were five years ago. So Right now. Grab a pencil and paper. (Stop reading just bloody do it!!!) Go to the nearest mirror look yourself in the eye and repeat after me "You stop this shit now! You are not wasting one more moment of my precious life living in the past, worrying about those 2 assholes. I refuse to let their actions make me miserable for one more minute and I give myself permission to take my life back right now. Today you start living and planning for tomorrow. Today you promise to focus only on what you want to feel tomorrow. Fuck them. Here I come!" Now write a list of everything you see in the mirror that you'd like to improve. Need to update, hair, makeup, wardrobe, lose weight, gain weight everything and anything you'd like to see change. (Superficial maybe but us gals need our game going!) NOW write a list of everything you ever wanted to do in life that you haven't yet done. Happy with your lists? They don't have to be perfect and you can add / change stuff later. There are victims and there are survivors in life - you are now off the road to remaining a victim. Those lists are going to become your focus - you make a plan for each and every item on that list and get it done. Set goals set time frames and soon not only are you feeling and looking better but you'll realise it's really hard to look back when you are moving forward. (Seriously message me if you need any help with actioning items on your list!) this is the start of your new amazing life I am so excited for you!!! (PS I do curse for emphasis at times - fuck those losers stay the hell away from them!)
You are so welcome. I only wish I knew you to give you a hug :) Do your lists and be ruthless about follow through. Not only will you feel better day by day. You will see the changes happening before your very eyes. Everything you deserve is waiting you just have to go get it.
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Time does not heal anything. In time you can learn to live with it and move beyond it BUT you haven't moved on at all - you are living the same moment you were five years ago. So Right now. Grab a pencil and paper. (Stop reading just bloody do it!!!) Go to the nearest mirror look yourself in the eye and repeat after me "You stop this shit now! You are not wasting one more moment of my precious life living in the past, worrying about those 2 assholes. I refuse to let their actions make me miserable for one more minute and I give myself permission to take my life back right now. Today you start living and planning for tomorrow. Today you promise to focus only on what you want to feel tomorrow. Fuck them. Here I come!" Now write a list of everything you see in the mirror that you'd like to improve. Need to update, hair, makeup, wardrobe, lose weight, gain weight everything and anything you'd like to see change. (Superficial maybe but us gals need our game going!) NOW write a list of everything you ever wanted to do in life that you haven't yet done. Happy with your lists? They don't have to be perfect and you can add / change stuff later. There are victims and there are survivors in life - you are now off the road to remaining a victim. Those lists are going to become your focus - you make a plan for each and every item on that list and get it done. Set goals set time frames and soon not only are you feeling and looking better but you'll realise it's really hard to look back when you are moving forward. (Seriously message me if you need any help with actioning items on your list!) this is the start of your new amazing life I am so excited for you!!! (PS I do curse for emphasis at times - fuck those losers stay the hell away from them!)
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Thank you I think that is the best advice I have ever received in life!
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You are so welcome. I only wish I knew you to give you a hug :) Do your lists and be ruthless about follow through. Not only will you feel better day by day. You will see the changes happening before your very eyes. Everything you deserve is waiting you just have to go get it.